did he move you away from your family? Thats what alot of them do, isolate you, so that you aren't getting the feedback from family and friends that you are worthwhile. There's no balance to the destructive things they say, and after a while you just start to believe it In the end you become so isolated its even hard to make a decision ... that was my experience, but mine was nothing like what you've faced.
Its good that you guys did manage to do the runner.
Yes I did, during treatment 2006 - 2007, it was very difficult, people seemed to be waiting for me to die, or they somehow thought they could fix me. I dont think that everyone is like that, just the few people I met at the time.
In all honesty, even though it took me 5 years to get over the marriage and start dating again, it was the ex boyfriend that I've found the hardest to come to terms with.
There was no argument, or difference of opinion, just life and responsibilities pulling two people apart. Makes if difficult to have the same sense of closure - well thats what I've found anyway.
In saying that, I look back on the time we had together and it makes me smile, all the silly things we got up to..and I wouldnt trade it for the world.
thank you Nette, its reassuring to know that its more likely a passing fancy. I guess Im just feeling the frustration of it, and the concern that she is getting a good diet. I know she's not starving, or under weight, but I dont think she's eating as well as she could be
I used to love putting my freezing feet in his armpits.. and he never squealed or complained. I miss the manly man stuff too, like when you brake light blows and they change it for you, cause they'd hate to think someone ran into you.
RE: cooking shows
I dont watch TVI exercised my basic human right to say NO to utter garbage impacting on my life.
Sometimes I do hear the TV in the background, and I ask that it be turned down, or off