romanticman4u Forum Posts (494)

RE: marrage

Don't rush into any thing, take your time to really get to know each other well, big red flag comes to mind when someone wants to get married that fast, I would question why he's in such a hurry. I would take a year or two to get to know each other real well before taking that serious step, I used this time frame and it prevented me from making a serious mistake and saved me from a future divorce, thats my opinion, good luck to you and may god bless.

RE: Tell me how

AH A QUESTION IN TRUE BOBAN FASHION, I say to you Boban hump her leg but do it wearing protection...if you don't understand protection its a hockey helmet because your gonna get slapped along side the cranium and your gonna need the hockey helmet to keep your brains in tact.

RE: Is it because i am a single parent.......

Men are scared of approaching beautiful women like you, any man worth his salt would welcome your children and love them as he would love you, maybe it is hard to find a family oriented man these days but don't give up hope there sweety.

RE: Everybody lies

Speak for yourself I am real with any ladies I date and if they don't like me then it was never meant to be, most of the ladies I date tell me I am easy to talk to because I am being myself.

RE: Single parenting for Men ??

It's not easy being a single parent, my wife couldn't do much when she was Ill but what she did do was a huge help to me, after she died I felt overwhelmed and very much alone but a man must do what he's gotta do. They turned out pretty well and are both attending college, I think my wife smiles from heaven at my missteps and my successes.

RE: He kissed or hugged me only when he wanted to make love with me.

Yes men can show effection without it turning into foreplay, I used to show my wife affection all the time, sometimes as simple as a passing touch. Several times a year I bought her flowers for no other reason then just to show her how much she meant to me and how much I loved her. Your longings to have someone show affection regaurdless of a hug or kiss are not to much to ask I think we all need that kind of affection. Good luck dear one in your search for a good man

RE: [b]describe what your dream man/woman would look and act[/b]

Awe thanks Shirley, did you have to clear the cobwebs off my profile before you read it

RE: As a single parent how big a role does someone accepting your kids play in you deciding to date them

Like you said your child is a big part of your life, Anyone who loves you knows this child is a part of you and should want to love and protect your child as if thier own.

RE: [b]describe what your dream man/woman would look and act[/b]

A woman who would love me as much as I love her, been searching no luck so far will continue the search because I don't give up easily see I told you

RE: Hell and Heaven, where are they?

Live your life like you fear hell by obeying the laws of the bible and you will gain heaven,

RE: DO YOU BELIEVE THE 2012 DOOMSDAY PREDICTIONS?

I beleive the 2012 is the end of the Mayan calender as we know it, we just have to get the Mayans to start a new calender and we are good to go

RE: Cancun beach closes because sand was stolen

I toured that hotel they tried to sell me a time share, was a nice hotel , didn't know it came with sand cops, glad I didn't get the timeshare.

RE: Do you tell your real life friends that you're in a dating site?

The guys at work know I am on line looking, on guy refer's to it as trolling and they generally give me a bad time about it every now and again. I look at it as who cares as long as I find a long term relationship out of the deal, its better then meeting women in a bar setting, I don't like hanging out in bars. I think online dating has been a godsend to all us singles and online is no different then face to face dating as before online dating became popular..buyer beware

RE: Dating Standards

sounds like your shopping for Yule Gibbons Druidess, oh my did I predate myself by the yule Gibons comment, Half of connecting singles is scratching there head saying who the heck is yule Gibbons

RE: what do you fear most?

Being laid off from work, being alone, losing one of my children.

RE: I need advice regarding a guy...

Theres something mighty suspicious a guy leaving Minnesota in the middle of summer and during the hieght of fishing season and leaving such a beautiful wisconsinite behind, when you do talk to him ask him how many times Mom dropped him on his head when he was a baby. Seriously there could be some very good reasons he can't get ahold of you right now he could be settling in, sounds like he's working some herendous hours, I hope you hear from him soon goodluck.

RE: is there really a way to quit smoking

Its been seven years since I smoked, I started out using the patch, try putting it over your lips lol Kidding It all comes down to will power, there is no easy way to quit, I was a very heavy smoker and had tried several times to quit..all comes down to will power, after the fifth day I took the patch off and went cold turkey, it was extremely hellish for two days and slowly it was easier and easier, what gave me such will power was the choice. Smoke or pay the morgage, the house is paid for now lol.goodluck to you, try the patch its the best way I found...

RE: Post a Song for your current mood.....

If God Made You...by Five for Fighting

RE: Great movie quotes.

day of the living dead.....Zombie on police radio after eating brains of two police...Send More Cops ..lol

RE: A really geeky question on dating.. and stuff. .

Kick him to the curb....find someone who will be true to you and love you, this jerk thinks your just a little play thing dump him fast .

RE: I'm back and I'm hurt severly

Trying to do this with a little sensativity and humanity, I have been looking for 3 1/2 years been on here for awhile, I am on several dating sites, a little advice to you which keeps me going. Any woman worth having is worth waiting for, your not alone in your search she's not just going to drop into your arms that easily because a good woman is worth working for to so work this place and in time you will meet someone. Good luck 2u

RE: ZOMBIES!!!!!!!

The same thing I do every day I let them walk out of work and go home....

RE: Cheers

Jeepers ..it says so on your profile

RE: What's the guys thinking before they have to live with women who has they own child...

I guess it doesn't matter to me if she has a child or not If she has a child that child is a part of her and I would love that child as if the child was my own and I would hope she would eccept my two children in the same way. As the wise Merle Haggard once sang....Thats the way love goes.

RE: love or money?

couldn't have said it better

RE: Why do most of men are afraid of marriage while most of women wish it?

I have no problem with marriage, if I find a compatible woman I would marry again

RE: Why are most of men afraid of marriage while most of women wish it?

I am not afraid of marriage and very much welcome it with a good compatible woman.

RE: Pros and Cons of online Dating

Very wise advice, thankyou

RE: Hello..Is It Me You're Looking For

Welcome serioussoul wishing you the best of luck in your search.

RE: whats better????

My late wife and I agreed that she would stay home with the children from birth to the point both kids were in school. We felt it very important for our childrens first years of development that mom was there for them and they turned out to both be very smart and trouble free kids. The reality is that I have a very good job and was able to do that, some folks just aren't able to do this financially and both couples must work in order to make ends meet, its unfortunite but its a fact of life.