First off it would never be getting married because I had to it would be because I want to, the theme would be romantic and fun , something that would be very memorable for all guests. Weding are one of those rare occations you get to celebrate life, they rank right up there with births graduations anniversaries and deaths. As for the honey moon definately Hawaii , I can't imagine a better place to honeymoon.
Marriage is a covenant between two people and god and the vows reflect that, I know what it means to have fulfilled those vows. You are meant to be married to one person , the problem today is people don't take marriage seriously and don't bother to take the time to get to know thier potential mate. Throw away relationships are what people do, what they dont understand is the seriousness of thier actions. There is nothing wrong with the vow till death do us part and anyone who thinks differently, well you really should shy away from them as a potenial mate because they don't know the word commitment.
If they run let them, they aren't worth dating because they aren't real men, certainly not the family man your looking for, if I was 10 years younger I would be the man to date you.
Yes they should if they can be dedicated to one person for a life time, before deciding make sure you know your potential mate very very well taking plenty of time to get to know him or her very well,
You forgot TILL DEATH DO US PART, The vows are meant to be serious and are meant to be a covenant between you and your mate and god not to be broken by any man or woman. They are a serious matter unfortunitely in todays society, alot of marriages are throw away disposable type of relationships. I have been through the till death do you part and have fullfilled my vows as a husband, I intend to do the same for my next relationship . The vows aren't meant to be changed to reflect the times, they are meant to be sacred and held to gods order.
What planet are you from, you just suffered 8 years of Dubbbbya, the president of the worst presidents club, he makes a scat throwing monkey look smart
This country was messed up pretty good under dubbya, just goes to show you how impatient everyone is and how unrealistic some peoples expectations are. Obama can't wave a magic wand and make unemployement and the economy better in months. Look back in history at how long it took our country to climb out of the great depression, get real people.
I shouldn't have taken the poll because its unfair , not all men are terrible beings , I have now and in the past have had long distance relationships, met a sweet woman from California and we spent a week together and had a wonderful time, in the long term we just both decided it wouldn't work. I have met many people who have had long distance relationships and they have been very successful, for me I guess I would go to just about any distance if I knew I would find that one, the love of my life, my soul mate, maybe you should be open to the idea, you never know where love may come from.
I would have it arranged that she have time with Dad away from the step monster and thier home like some of the ladies have suggested here,if he really cares he will do this.
Gotta be honest here, thought about having the surgery done myself however the only thing that prevents me is its fairly new considering it hasn't been around to know if theres long term effects. I only have these two eyes for my life time, prefer using glasses, my perspective right or wrong.
I am really good at Chili and I make a really good wildrice soup, another specialty, season steaks and a special Hobo Patato's on the grill as well as corn on the cob on the grill. Put together a boiled dinner one time with corned beef as the meat, for a first try I did well
I don't have a sweetheart currently however if I did it would be her loyalty and the little things like a passing touch, the simple things in life she would do for me would make my putter flutter.
If the single mom and I have a good connection , then how could I not except her kids as family, I would treat them as my own, I expect her to feel the same of my children.
I think people don't take thier vows serious enough these days and they don't take enough time to really get to know thier mates. If you see red flags about a potienal mate you shouldn't ignore them you should address them. I honestly think once you are married it is for a life time and the thought is be sure he or she is the one when you propose or except the proposal. I wish you much luck sir I hope this is your last relationship and may godbless you both.
are you serious......where were you when georgie spewed nothing but lies for 8 years, tried to privatize social security which would have bankrupted it when the stock market took a dumper, times aren't good but then what do you expect when our country was so close to a depression because of the bush administration, give the man a chance ,you gave bush eight years to destroy things.
Wow everyone great posts by all, its great to get so many different points of view on this subject, when I bartended for the Legion I paid close attention to my elderly clients relationships. Many couples with 30 to 60 years of marriage, what I saw were these couples having mutual respect for each other, doing for one another in small ways and big ways and compromise. In asking one of my customers on his 50th wedding anniversary what was the secret to thier long marriage ..he answered Yes MAAM I believe dating is simply taking a good amount of time to get to know someone. As one of the posts said don't ignore the red flags and that inner voice telling you something is wrong. That advice is sound and hopefully prevent a person from making a wrong decision. Thankyou to all who posted...godbless ps hoping my next poll is less serious and more fun.
RE: If you had to get married again .....
First off it would never be getting married because I had to it would be because I want to, the theme would be romantic and fun , something that would be very memorable for all guests. Weding are one of those rare occations you get to celebrate life, they rank right up there with births graduations anniversaries and deaths. As for the honey moon definately Hawaii , I can't imagine a better place to honeymoon.