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Jul 22, 2009 11:14 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
EternalPhoenix
EternalPhoenixEternalPhoenixAurora, Colorado USA1 Threads 51 Posts
I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
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Jul 22, 2009 11:16 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Pouting gets you nowhere....it only gives you pronation of the bottom lip, which, if the wind blows, can become a permanent physical feature...professor
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Jul 22, 2009 11:18 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.


Welcome back wave

Why don't you start by telling us why you hurt?
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Jul 22, 2009 11:18 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.


Huh? Your whole OP is negative, yet we aren't allowed to post anything negative? It doesn't work that way Bub.........
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Jul 22, 2009 11:19 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
ive never seen you before

the truth does build and not destroy

a month is a very short time

and myself and a number of other members here have depression and related problems

meds are good-sometimes it takes months to find the right one but it makes life work much better when you do

and relationships


good luckhead banger hug
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Jul 22, 2009 11:19 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.


Almost a month?
Wow!I've been waiting for a month.doh
Seriously though,she'll stumble on
you when you least expect it.
Good luck.wave
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Jul 22, 2009 11:20 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
....Best,I keep my 'trap shut' on this one.....doh doh doh

J.D

grin devil
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Jul 22, 2009 11:21 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Your 21 years old and have a full life a head of you. Take things easy and enjoy your life. No need to try and settle down now. Enjoy the forums and post positive things and one day you will find what your seeking here or in your area.
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Jul 22, 2009 11:22 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
EternalPhoenix
EternalPhoenixEternalPhoenixAurora, Colorado USA1 Threads 51 Posts
Lagoona22: Pouting gets you nowhere....it only gives you pronation of the bottom lip, which, if the wind blows, can become a permanent physical feature...


I know it won't get me anywhere but I've been hurt way too much. I try to be positive in this herrendous world yet it never lasts more than an hour.
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Jul 22, 2009 11:22 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
stop looking!!!!

Spend some time getting to know yourself, do things that you like.


I honestly think desperation can come across when people get too hung up on finding the one.
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Jul 22, 2009 11:23 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.



Try waiting 2 years .Longer for other members .Your impatience shows you have not 'waited' for the good things .You think its that easy ? The depression you must deal with before you look for love .You ,need to heal and start being more patient if you want to get anywhere .


3 years iv been .Iv not met the love of my life but iv met some fantastic friends that mean much more sometimes ............ note sometimes laugh


Phoenix = rise from the ashes ?! your turn soon wine


Good luck
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Jul 22, 2009 11:24 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
sxc666: stop looking!!!!

Spend some time getting to know yourself, do things that you like.I honestly think desperation can come across when people get too hung up on finding the one.


thumbs up What she said.
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Jul 22, 2009 11:26 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,899 Posts
You have been looking for a month??? laugh doh dunno I have been looking for over 5 years doh You are starting to lose hope?? doh Get a Dog, you will smile right away...besides, women like Dog men
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Jul 22, 2009 11:29 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
Trying to do this with a little sensativity and humanity, I have been looking for 3 1/2 years been on here for awhile, I am on several dating sites, a little advice to you which keeps me going. Any woman worth having is worth waiting for, your not alone in your search she's not just going to drop into your arms that easily because a good woman is worth working for to so work this place and in time you will meet someone. Good luck 2ubeer
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Jul 22, 2009 11:30 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
sxc666: stop looking!!!!

Spend some time getting to know yourself, do things that you like.I honestly think desperation can come across when people get too hung up on finding the one.


.......wow....Huh.... And you say I am 'blunt' and your mouth drops when I say something on here.............Hello....tongue

J.Dgrin devil
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Jul 22, 2009 11:39 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Inthewoods: You have been looking for a month??? I have been looking for over 5 years You are starting to lose hope?? Get a Dog, you will smile right away...besides, women like Dog men


right on bro. i've been looking for about 5 years too.

look kid a month isn't that long you have you're whole life ahead of you. you can't make it happen you have to let it happen with alittle effort.

as the Stones say

No, you can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
And if you try sometime you find
You get what you need

Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm old and short, I have gray hair but you know what I get up every day and say this might be the day I meet the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with and if I don't that's ok too.



cheers
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Jul 22, 2009 11:44 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
if you are not happy in yourself then you wont find someone
relax enjoy life maybe you find your love soon or maybe it will take time just dont try to hard and enjoy the journey
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Jul 22, 2009 11:45 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,899 Posts
AsleepInNJ: right on bro. i've been looking for about 5 years too.

look kid a month isn't that long you have you're whole life ahead of you. you can't make it happen you have to let it happen with alittle effort.

as the Stones say

No, you can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
And if you try sometime you find
You get what you need

Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm old and short, I have gray hair but you know what I get up every day and say this might be the day I meet the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with and if I don't that's ok too.
thumbs up
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Jul 22, 2009 11:48 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
AsleepInNJ: right on bro. i've been looking for about 5 years too.

look kid a month isn't that long you have you're whole life ahead of you. you can't make it happen you have to let it happen with alittle effort.

as the Stones say

No, you can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
And if you try sometime you find
You get what you need

Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm old and short, I have gray hair but you know what I get up every day and say this might be the day I meet the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with and if I don't that's ok too.
thumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 22, 2009 11:49 PM CST I'm back and I'm hurt severly
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.


Almost a month ?

I'm workin on a year and I still have faith that I'll get to see Tina's leather chair ......smitten cheering

C'mon boy........ keep fantacizing and let yer hair down doh
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