CaptainBeirutIII: See, you're doing that thing again. "I know I am... to most of the more..."..... Drop those bits and it will only help you. No one's called you dull or pathetic. There's no need to invent realities.
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
EternalPhoenix: I had two: one two years ago and another just last year. Both relationships ended badly and left me emotionally damaged to the point I could just die.
So you've had two girlfriend in two years.
And you wanted to die after you broke up with the first one, yet you found the strength to find a new girlfriend?
Are you telling these girlfriends that you will probably kill yourself if they break up with you?
EternalPhoenix: I had two: one two years ago and another just last year. Both relationships ended badly and left me emotionally damaged to the point I could just die.
But you didn't die did you?
Instead of fighting all the good advice, why don't you print this thread out and re-read it?
Do you have any hobbies? Get a cat, so that you have something that you can look after, a being that you can show your love to and love and nurture, I know it sounds a silly suggestion, but it does work, you seem like you have no purpose at the moment and I think you need to speak to a professional who can help you kickstart yourself into a better place.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
EternalPhoenix: I had two: one two years ago and another just last year. Both relationships ended badly and left me emotionally damaged to the point I could just die.
Stop moaning, count your blessings and look at this!!!
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
On second thought, if you get a cat, AND a dozen hamsters dressed up in miniature ninja outfits made by your mother, and a video camera, then let the animals loose in your house, you could record a low-budget version of Battle Royale. With any luck someone will pick it up, spread it as the best cult flick since Evil Dead, make you famous and you'll pick the content of any knicker you please.
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
LethalLove: Does anyone remember being 21?
How crazy and painful, and completely overwhelming that age was?How we knew everything and yet knew nothing?
How when we attempted to share how we felt with someone, their remedy was ..."Go get laid." ?
Did that fix it?
Nah, 21 was brilliant! Nothing confusing at all. You could buy your own booze, breaking up with someone was done with a simple talk without it going on forever with the questions of why and will there ever be happiness in your life.
Being a teenager involved all those hormones making you go bonkers sometimes, but 21... hell, who wouldn't want to be 21?
Sommerauer71: It is not pathetic. I think flirting is a great idea and here is a great place to start. If nothing else it will develop you some confidence even if only writing.
I think you are an articulate young man, you have held posters attention for nine pages, so that is something.
What are your hobbies?
That's a miricle. I'm studying martial arts, I collect weapons (swords, axes, spears, ect.) I used to draw and write but my depression got in the way.
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I will.