Ambrose2007: Hmmm...wow! We must've reading entirely different threads. I see no evidence of rudeness, lack of gratitude, etc., at all from this guy - quite the opposite. He's been remarkably genial and non-defensive considering some of the flack he's gotten, and he has expressed gratitude on a number of occasions. I have to think you're seeing what you wish to see here, Audry; sorry, but I don't have a better explanation.
So, flying my three dimensional plane is not so lonely after all...
AsleepInNJ: right on bro. i've been looking for about 5 years too.
look kid a month isn't that long you have you're whole life ahead of you. you can't make it happen you have to let it happen with alittle effort.
as the Stones say
No, you can't always get what you want You can't always get what you want You can't always get what you want And if you try sometime you find You get what you need
Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. I'm old and short, I have gray hair but you know what I get up every day and say this might be the day I meet the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with and if I don't that's ok too.
Hey, did anyone tell you that you look like Hugh Laurie from "House"? Sure seems like it to me. O.K., now I'll participate in the post. A month of looking is not long at all. Just a flash, buddy. There are so many people out there, it's a wonder more don't fall in love and marry, and then turn around in a short time and find the real one. (There's a movie about that, a recent remake--can't remember. It's presented as a comedy, but I'm sure the jilted bride didn't think so! Choose carefully. If you lie down with dogs, you'll get up with fleas.
Hi, remember that every wrong turn will only lead you one step closer to the right one! Take care, and smile while looking at the world, things will become so mucn more beautiful!
EternalPhoenix: Don't apologize. I know I'm a sad waste of space and spare organs. I am trying to get on with my life.
......'I know I'm a sad waste of space and spare organs'....Dude,that to me is saying, I am 'Wallowing in Self Pity' and 'Whoa is Me' attitude.....and what is this type of 'Thinking' going to archive for 'You' as an Person.......I will tell you.....Absolutely 'Nothing'....You fact,if you keep thinking this way,it will make you even more worse in yourself..... sorry,if I sound blunt here......but this is just my humble opinion....all the best to you,a lot of people here, have given 'you' some very good and sincere 'advice' and its up to You,no one else ,to move forward......
I respond because, This is a man of 21 years who is asking for help.
He is looking for advice from people that have been through what he is going through.
I have nothing but the upmost respect for your ancesters and their struggles.
But we need to look at the present struggles our future generation faces.
You may hate me and call me every name in the book, that's fine.
Have a nice day.
....First off...'Hate' is not in me....and 'Hate' is such a wasted emotion,I have seen to many good people destroyed by 'Hate'....and now for your comment...............and good on you for expressing your thoughts and opinions....Well done..... 'But we need to look at the present struggles our future generation faces.'....Fair call,but I would also like you, to have a good think on this one.....'For he, who doens't learn from history and the Human Race past mistakes,is doomed to repeat them'....again, have a think here.....good meeting you
virgiomonkey: ....First off...'Hate' is not in me....and 'Hate' is such a wasted emotion,I have seen to many good people destroyed by 'Hate'....and now for your comment...............and good on you for expressing your thoughts and opinions....Well done..... 'But we need to look at the present struggles our future generation faces.'....Fair call,but I would also like you, to have a good think on this one.....'For he, who doens't learn from history and the Human Race past mistakes,is doomed to repeat them'....again, have a think here.....good meeting you
J.D
I am pleased to meet you also
I will think about what you have stated above, and get back to you in the morning.
virgiomonkey: ......'I know I'm a sad waste of space and spare organs'....Dude,that to me is saying, I am 'Wallowing in Self Pity' and 'Whoa is Me' attitude.....and what is this type of 'Thinking' going to archive for 'You' as an Person.......I will tell you.....Absolutely 'Nothing'....You fact,if you keep thinking this way,it will make you even more worse in yourself..... sorry,if I sound blunt here......but this is just my humble opinion....all the best to you,a lot of people here, have given 'you' some very good and sincere 'advice' and its up to You,no one else ,to move forward......
J.D
I'm aware of that. My history is my own and I need to write it the way I want it to be written. I'm not in a 'self pity' state anymore, it's more like a self hate' persona. Reason being I know that most that have responded to this thread have tried to tear me down and make comedy of things. Only a certian few here have helped me better myself slowly but surely. I''l see if I can find some Magnesium or Omega-3 and see if those will help me.
EternalPhoenix: I'm aware of that. My history is my own and I need to write it the way I want it to be written. I'm not in a 'self pity' state anymore, it's more like a self hate' persona. Reason being I know that most that have responded to this thread have tried to tear me down and make comedy of things. Only a certian few here have helped me better myself slowly but surely. I''l see if I can find some Magnesium or Omega-3 and see if those will help me.
.........Excellent.....look,the first and best step 'You' can do for 'You' is to start and help yourself.....No one else can do that .......But only 'You' can....Sure ask help and guidance,but from the right people who have Your best interest at heart...Hope you understand what I am saying here to you....
virgiomonkey: .........Excellent.....look,the first and best step 'You' can do for 'You' is to start and help yourself.....No one else can do that .......But only 'You' can....Sure ask help and guidance,but from the right people who have Your best interest at heart...Hope you understand what I am saying here to you....
J.D
I do, Virgio. It took some time but I'm understanding what everyone's saying(even the borderline mental people).
I say what I feel is appropiate for the situation, Lethal. I'm one who has an odd sense of humor(how that is I'll never know).
LethalLove: I must be reading a different thread....
I saw a young buck ask for a bit of advice.
I saw both genders of all ages offer their advice.
I saw a young buck respond to the advice from all ages and both genders.
I actually saw some self effacing humour from said young buck..."I know I am a whatever whatever, and spare organs"...I near peed myself laughing reading that post, it sounded like tongue in cheek humour.
I see people continue responding to this thread...
and every now and again, the afore-mentioned young buck, replies...politely I might add.Fascinating how I see one thread...and yet, someone else sees something else entirely different.
Oh My!!!
Could that be the different perspectives people bang on about?
EternalPhoenix: I do, Virgio. It took some time but I'm understanding what everyone's saying(even the borderline mental people).
I say what I feel is appropiate for the situation, Lethal. I'm one who has an odd sense of humor(how that is I'll never know).
........ Hey Dude if you thought 'Lethal' as an 'Odd' sense of humor...Well mine is even a lot worse then hers.....!!!!..some advice for you young Man....learn to 'laugh' at yourself,I do..other wise I would have been totally 'Nuts' many years ago..'Laughter' and 'humor' sometimes are the Medicine in this wonderful,but sometimes F#@k up World......
virgiomonkey: ........ Hey Dude if you thought 'Lethal' as an 'Odd' sense of humor...Well mine is even a lot worse then hers.....!!!!..some advice for you young Man....learn to 'laugh' at yourself,I do..other wise I would have been totally 'Nuts' many years ago..'Laughter' and 'humor' sometimes are the Medicine in this wonderful,but sometimes F#@k up World......
J.D
Some people would beg to differ on the "laughter is the best medicine" bit, though you have a point about laughing at yourself sometimes.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
LethalLove: The funniest part?
This thread is what 18 pages long?
Count how many posters come in, banging on about how many pages this thing has gone on for, and added their two cents worth on attention seeking...then have a look at what EP contributed....
other than 'thankyou'...or 'I appreciate that'....or a 'no, I don't think that fits me'...
he hasn't kept this thread going...
everyone pissing on about how many pages long it is has...
Gosh look how many pages this is! Seriously though I think the OP has gotten the point. And I think he's aware that he's got some work to do. The first step to changing is awareness. Its great that he's taken a first step. Good for you EP!
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