CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
Is this the bloke who had a picture with him in what looked like a Ghostbuster outfit? The one asking about a new girl he was interested in almost once a week? Some rockgroup name as moniker, if I remember correct.
I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
I'll do my best to carry on but I'm not making any promises.
You're hurt severly? So you were hospitalized for you injuries? Right? Ya, I didn't think so. Maybe a bit of perspective is in order.
You have nothing to smile about, and we'll never see you happy? Nothing? Never? Ya, whatever...melodramatic much?
"You'll try to carry on, but you're not making any promises." You dramatically over estimate my(and probably the majority of people that are'nt your mum) interest in your well being.
Somewhere it seems you got the idea that all this moping around will attract women, and they'll think "Omg, this poor guy. I must love him." IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN. It will attract attention from some. They'll console you, and then go find someone they're attracted to.
Pain is potential energy, having it in abundance is not unattractive. Making it, instead of what you do with it, your identity...is.
PeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA1,358 posts
In response to: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
Have patience grasshopper. I spent 12 years (10 months in CS) hunting for someone like my present wife who I met here
Don't be in such of a rush. Take your time and have some fun. I guarantee it will happen when it happens.
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
In my desire to help you inthis difficult time, I'm sending you via private mail, the particulars of a couple of women that contacted me but I'm not that interested in.
You'll be glad to know that both are willing to relocaste...with certain conditions...
One is a basket weaver in a small village of Burma...and would come to live with you...but only if you have ( or are willing to have) plenty of bamboo trees in your backyard so she can keep her carft...
The other is a wild buffalo shepherd and promises to make very happy any man that will allow her to continue with this tradition...
Not very sure about the by laws in your town regarding keeping this animals on your property, but it's worth a try...
I'll let you know if I receive any other interesting mail...
rioplatense: In my desire to help you inthis difficult time, I'm sending you via private mail, the particulars of a couple of women that contacted me but I'm not that interested in.
You'll be glad to know that both are willing to relocaste...with certain conditions...
One is a basket weaver in a small village of Burma...and would come to live with you...but only if you have ( or are willing to have) plenty of bamboo trees in your backyard so she can keep her carft...
The other is a wild buffalo shepherd and promises to make very happy any man that will allow her to continue with this tradition...
Not very sure about the by laws in your town regarding keeping this animals on your property, but it's worth a try...
I'll let you know if I receive any other interesting mail...
My God,sometimes i ask myself if you come from this planet or another.
Ocee35: You're hurt severly? So you were hospitalized for you injuries? Right? Ya, I didn't think so. Maybe a bit of perspective is in order.
You have nothing to smile about, and we'll never see you happy? Nothing? Never? Ya, whatever...melodramatic much?
"You'll try to carry on, but you're not making any promises." You dramatically over estimate my(and probably the majority of people that are'nt your mum) interest in your well being. Somewhere it seems you got the idea that all this moping around will attract women, and they'll think "Omg, this poor guy. I must love him." IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN. It will attract attention from some. They'll console you, and then go find someone they're attracted to. Pain is potential energy, having it in abundance is not unattractive. Making it, instead of what you do with it, your identity...is. People will watch you get sad and die
before they choose to love you for your pain.
If they want to watch me die, that's fine. I seriously doubt anyone will remember me.
EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
"my ma tol' me, can't hurry love, no you'll just hav to wait, no can't hurry love" sorry, Bud. It's the way it is.
Don´t ever lose hope, but you have to stop looking. Just take it as it is. Love is going to attac you when you are ready, and maybe you aren´t ready? So, go out with your friends and have fun, show your happy face and have a good laugh. Then the love is going to hit you. Take care , Love Kathie
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