I'm back and I'm hurt severly (280)
i was wondering who Tina was. 
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EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
A week is a long time in politics.
A week is nothing if you want to find true love.
Come back in 20 years and tell us if you got lucky!
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RobertC2: A week is a long time in politics.
A week is nothing if you want to find true love.
Come back in 20 years and tell us if you got lucky!
A week is nothing if you want to find true love.
Come back in 20 years and tell us if you got lucky!
A MONTH (how long you have been waiting) is NOTHING if you want to find true love.
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Heres you a story, A MONTH Ha!
Let me check my Temprature first... From the time i was your age, I was with My X wife, for 22yrs, and ended in divorice, That was 10 yrs ago, I have dated a fw ovr that time tho never found the right one, to complete life with, I have had this depression as we all face it in time, So Kid, I have been 10 yrs, waiting for the right one, and eliminating the strays, so I can be ready when she comes..... So I Have been 10 yrs, and still waiting.....
THINK ON THAT
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You are hardly out of diapers yet , just have fun, It WILL take you time on here..... If you need something sooner go to the BNar, and Get Laid I guess, but you probably wont want to take her home to Mom.... You are just at the crack of beginning to learn Patients..... so wishing you the best, but a month is nothing..... If you are really having more than that going on, Write me and i will help you sort it out.... I have 2 sons, 18 and 28..... God Bless, Larry
Let me check my Temprature first... From the time i was your age, I was with My X wife, for 22yrs, and ended in divorice, That was 10 yrs ago, I have dated a fw ovr that time tho never found the right one, to complete life with, I have had this depression as we all face it in time, So Kid, I have been 10 yrs, waiting for the right one, and eliminating the strays, so I can be ready when she comes..... So I Have been 10 yrs, and still waiting..... THINK ON THAT .....You are hardly out of diapers yet , just have fun, It WILL take you time on here..... If you need something sooner go to the BNar, and Get Laid I guess, but you probably wont want to take her home to Mom.... You are just at the crack of beginning to learn Patients..... so wishing you the best, but a month is nothing..... If you are really having more than that going on, Write me and i will help you sort it out.... I have 2 sons, 18 and 28..... God Bless, Larry
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HotrodLarrys: Heres you a story, A MONTH Ha! Let me check my Temprature first... From the time i was your age, I was with My X wife, for 22yrs, and ended in divorice, That was 10 yrs ago, I have dated a fw ovr that time tho never found the right one, to complete life with, I have had this depression as we all face it in time, So Kid, I have been 10 yrs, waiting for the right one, and eliminating the strays, so I can be ready when she comes..... So I Have been 10 yrs, and still waiting..... THINK ON THAT .....You are hardly out of diapers yet , just have fun, It WILL take you time on here..... If you need something sooner go to the BNar, and Get Laid I guess, but you probably wont want to take her home to Mom.... You are just at the crack of beginning to learn Patients..... so wishing you the best, but a month is nothing..... If you are really having more than that going on, Write me and i will help you sort it out.... I have 2 sons, 18 and 28..... God Bless, Larry
Fun is hard at my age and I'm not making excuses, either. I don't drink, I'm not keen on bars and I've boxed myself in basically. I'm just waiting and I'm just going through an episode which won't won't everyone calling me 'kid' and/or 'boy'. I've been looking for the right one long before my break up with my ex.
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AsleepInNJ: i was wondering who Tina was.
Yes, and now you know........ "No-Holds Barred Tina "
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EternalPhoenix: Fun is hard at my age and I'm not making excuses, either. I don't drink, I'm not keen on bars and I've boxed myself in basically. I'm just waiting and I'm just going through an episode which won't won't everyone calling me 'kid' and/or 'boy'. I've been looking for the right one long before my break up with my ex.
At your age My Dad Drowned, and My Brother was Murdered driving a Taxi, and I was being stalked because i found out who did it....and they wanted top kill me because i turned them into the Police...
I drank away the pain for a long time and a few yrs ago qit drinking completely....
Tho Yopu dont drink , You have that on your side, best dont start either.... I think you wold benefit from some outside activity, and maybe find here there too..... Like the Gym, Swim lessons, enroll in bowling or Dance lessons, these may be places for you to have fun, AND meet someone,,, Just some thoughts
Larry
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HotrodLarrys: At your age My Dad Drowned, and My Brother was Murdered driving a Taxi, and I was being stalked because i found out who did it....and they wanted top kill me because i turned them into the Police... I drank away the pain for a long time and a few yrs ago qit drinking completely....
Tho Yopu dont drink , You have that on your side, best dont start either.... I think you wold benefit from some outside activity, and maybe find here there too..... Like the Gym, Swim lessons, enroll in bowling or Dance lessons, these may be places for you to have fun, AND meet someone,,, Just some thoughts
Larry
Tho Yopu dont drink , You have that on your side, best dont start either.... I think you wold benefit from some outside activity, and maybe find here there too..... Like the Gym, Swim lessons, enroll in bowling or Dance lessons, these may be places for you to have fun, AND meet someone,,, Just some thoughts
Larry
I'm sorry for your losses. I like bowling. However, it always comes down to money and time. It sounds stupid but it's the truth.
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EternalPhoenix: I'm sorry for your losses. I like bowling. However, it always comes down to money and time. It sounds stupid but it's the truth.
Or, take a vacation to Reno and visit the Kitty Ranch , some find that a nice way to pass the time....
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EternalPhoenix: Fun is hard at my age and I'm not making excuses, either. I don't drink, I'm not keen on bars and I've boxed myself in basically.
Excuse me (please do excuse), but are you joking or something? If so, it's in very poor taste. I'd think that TODAY, even the people who think life is no fun, can STILL have fun meeting people who think alike! Goths, emos..... whatever.... (Sorry to offend anyone, I'm not 100% sure on these but it's my impression)
I don't drink either, and never been to a bar, but it doesn't mean my life is no fun.
I make it as fun as can be - with several hobbies which have brought me some amazing friendships, travels etc etc. There is just SO much you can do in this world. Of course, you'd have to WANT to do something interesting first.I understand the frustration about not having someone really dear and close to you, but just imagine for a minute that you did meet her - WHAT would you do together, if you don't think life is fun? You'd maybe feel total bliss for a week, maybe two, but then you'd get used to each other's presence in your life, and it would get really boring really soon. You HAVE to work on yourself and find where YOU stand in life before you can invite someone else into it.
As to being hurt by past drama, geez, I'm not even going to comment much on it. I guess I used to be also, and maybe it comes with age but now I hardly even remember any "past drama". Don't you find ANYTHING good about having been in some relationships? Nothing learned, nothing gained, no good times had? I do, and I don't really care that they ended for me, I've written them off to experience and am totally looking forward to the RIGHT one to spend my life with.
Bentlee: I, in that time got to know me and honestly, i really like me.
That was best advice that someone else gave me (which also, I guess you could say, ended in a "drama", LOL, though I can only thank that person for the good times and the sound advice he shared with me).
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EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
sorry cant help.....
it would go against my username and every fiber in my body....
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Get busy doing things, go biking, hiking, do anything that you enjoy. Make new friends and start getting active. That is what I am doing, getting busy enjoying life, the rest will come along.
This week I am going kayaking for the first time. Choose something you have never done and go out and do it, even if it's by yourself.
Good luck and God bless!!
This week I am going kayaking for the first time. Choose something you have never done and go out and do it, even if it's by yourself.
Good luck and God bless!!
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SXC666 IS SPOT ON !! CHICKEN SPOT !!!
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rubendario: Get busy doing things, go biking, hiking, do anything that you enjoy. Make new friends and start getting active. That is what I am doing, getting busy enjoying life, the rest will come along.
This week I am going kayaking for the first time. Choose something you have never done and go out and do it, even if it's by yourself.
Good luck and God bless!!
This week I am going kayaking for the first time. Choose something you have never done and go out and do it, even if it's by yourself.
Good luck and God bless!!
I got back from a vacation but it turned out to be more of a family outing. I tried to enjoy it but drama and other factors defeated the purpose. I feel chained by my own insecurity.
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EternalPhoenix: I'm sorry for your losses. I like bowling. However, it always comes down to money and time. It sounds stupid but it's the truth.
OK HERE IS THE BIG ONE,
NO MORE EXCUSES........
I want you to understand , Happiness, or sadness IT IS A CHOICE !!!!!!
It is a Choice, You can Control you Emotions....... When you wake up , You Have a Choice, and you pick!
Choice #1 You can CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
Choice # 2 You Can choose to be sad!.....
I didnt realize this till a few yrs ago, I didnt know i could choose.......
I just woke up and dont f with me?//
Or I choose to be in a good mood , no matter what , I will be happy that I am Alive , and i will rejoice today, go buy yourself a Ice cream, and sit on the bench and eat it , and enjoy it, enjut th bird picking up what you dropped,
I DID LEARN..... I was In My Fourties,,, I could CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY, I COULD CONTROL MY EMOTIONS ...... Go Get it straightened out!
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EternalPhoenix: I got back from a vacation but it turned out to be more of a family outing. I tried to enjoy it but drama and other factors defeated the purpose. I feel chained by my own insecurity.
Try to get out on your own, say away from negative people. Just get out of the house, go anywhere. Go to the library read books on something you would like to try and do, start a hobby. Go to the book store read a self help book..just get out and get busy. Get your mind off of anything negative.
Good luck and God bless!!
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EternalPhoenix: I've been looking for the right girl for almost a month and nothing has come my way. I've heard that "good things come to those who wait" and "Love will find you, not the other way around". I'm starting to lose hope and for the record, I have nothing to smile about, that's why you'll never see me happy. I have depression which doesn't help things either. Comments are welcome but only if they build, not destroy.
Hello and welcome
There has been some great advise given here, has it helped any ?
Someone said try dancing. I can recommend taking a Salsa class,
there are always more ladies than men, 3:1 at least
Life isn't all about relationships but at this point for you it is
but you must be active and happy by making real friends and eventually she will turn up. Don't go running around like a headless chicken searching, being too keen can be off putting.
Be cool and happy
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Change your state of mind. Looks like you're brainwashing yourself to be miserable. Get a self help book.They can help if you want to change your way oF thinking.
You're only 21 and having no fun?? You have to allow yourself to have fun by changing.
You're only 21 and having no fun?? You have to allow yourself to have fun by changing.
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I'm workin on a year and I still have faith that I'll get to see Tina's leather chair ......
C'mon boy........ keep fantacizing and let yer hair down
I try to but it's usually inconsistent and I'm closed up emotionally most of the time.It's mostly past experiences and drama that make me feel this way.