I've never thrown anything at a man although there were a few who deserved to have something thrown at them, even if it was only an insult. I've always enjoyed giving little presents to any man I've had a relationship with. Nothing very much, as I've never had loads of money but things I thought they might like or need. I gave one guy a set of teaspoons because he didn't have a second one at his house when I called. Showing you care for someone doesn't have to cost money though and it's not about what one buys for another.
Was your recent weight loss due to illness or was it deliberate? Deliberate weight loss should be easy enough to undo but illness is a different story. Like K says, go to a doctor and make sure you are ready for a new fitness regime. Your doctor will also have suggestions as to how to gain weight in a healthy manner. Best of luck. I hope it works out for you
But we're not all the same. I've never cared for bad boys in the least. They are usually egotistical and selfish, no matter how they throw their money about. Also, I can assure you that many good guys I have known were far from boring oul farts.
What if I came on here and said all the guys I know are only interested in bad girls.....which I wouldn't because, thankfully, it isn't true...but I have seen some hard women get really nice guys to fall for them and I often wonder why?
Although it's not a phrase I would use much myself, my own standard for a man to treat me right would be someone who is kind, considerate, respectful and honest. However, in the context it is being used on this thread I would presume that it's taken to mean a man who would spend his money on a woman. Can I just ask the OP if he thinks all women are the same, with the same morals and principles? Because he certainly posts like he does!!
Also, I've had that said to me by guys I ended things with and, for a little while, I did worry about it. However, now I know that I can enjoy life on my own and, although I don't want to be alone, I don't have to be with a man to stop feeling lonely. Friends and family do a very good job of that too. So mjpd67, make the most of the good friends you have and never stay with anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself
Facebook, like a lot of life, is just what you make it. You have to be aware that anything you post on it is there for practically public viewing and anyone that wants to, no matter what your privacy settings, will probably see it. It's a handy way for me to keep in contact with some friends and to keep aware of developments in the lives of others, but I wouldn't post anything on there that I would worry if the world knew about it. jmo
I think what most people, both male and female, need in this life is compassion and support. Then both genders might learn to rise to any challenge without fear of failure or judgement.
LadyBlackAdder Forum Posts (2,355)
You can't throw it around willy nilly 
I'd better head off and get some sleep 
RE: would you trade CS for a relationship ?
In a heartbeat