I've only been on this site less than two months. This is my first ever experience of socializing on-line. So, of course, I have been treading the rocky road of relating with folks unknown heretofore. It has been an emotional roller-coaster, to say the least. Apparently, I am quite gullible and easily smitten. I have become enamored with many, only to discover it to be misplaced affection, trust. However, there is one woman that I have continued to be something akin to close to, for over a month. We keep touch by telephone practically every day. Usually we talk for an hour or so, but often for over three hours. Plus e-mails and other communications. Having written this, nonetheless, in our relationship, we share a sense of reality. In that, and we have discussed this, although we are eager to meet in real life, we must allow more time to pass so that we are allowed to glean a proper, more in depth, insight of one another. Plus it's a long distance relationship. Not too far from one another, but you wouldn't want to motor the journey. So, we have an idea in mind of, should we still share our mutual interest, perhaps meeting and spending some time together, hmm 4, 5, 6, more months down the road. At least it won't be a frozen mile that we might travel together. In a nutshell, after posing this lengthy preamble, to answer your question, yes. Yes, I trust my friend very, very much. This particular relationship has been different than others. We have not wallowed in passionate, emotional platitudes of one another. Just a touch here and there, instead most of our breath has been utilized for common thoughts and values. Doesn't sound too romantic, does it? But should we become two lucky ones, romance shall bloom and flower about us joyfully for the rest of our lives.
Not only that, surely you've seen the photos of folks of Malta. Va Va Voom! Never have I seen such an incredible preponderance of beautiful people. What's in your water, Malta?
Now, how could you think that I wouldn't chime in on this? To two of my too many ex-wives, each of which was, to use your word, voluptious; I answered, yes, when they proposed to me.
what is the measure? should one indeed ask? from where is the pleasure? joy, where does thy bask? a simple gesture? a turn of a phrase? the touch of our fingers? be felt by a gaze?
countless questions could be asked yet not one answer be taken to task for we're all seeking something though, never the same with no definition that all may exclaim
we all want to love another and we all want to be loved we all need to love another and we all need to be loved
we all have some lost love from our past that we look back on with great fondness and/or regret, or both. may we share our personal tale and the memory of that which we often consider our most precious loss. what was it about this person that filled you with such heights of joy, which perhaps, was never to be reached again?
well, I suppose that I better write something to put memory of last post behind was joking and hoping for followers I must have been out of my mind could've been a moment of laughter for all to share in the joy but seems all I found was derision 'twere successful to only annoy
Both. One has to be flexible. Without going into detail, let me say that to demonstate overly servitude to all may offend some, or paint a wrong impression for another. Or they may like or appreciate it. Depends on the person and situation. But starting off polite is a positive opening act every time.
Not only flavor or nuance of what is written could be mistaken. Folks from foreign cultures sometimes may give much of what is written entirely different weight.
I'm only saying that there was a line there offering one the option of listing the types of people that they may have preferrence for. I think the word used was : Preferrence or Preferrences.
You posted red headed girl. Hey, you're kinda cute, you know that? Hmmm, Richwood. Where is that, uh, zactly? By the way, I was kinda wonderin', I need a wife, do you like to do dishes? You don't dress in pants, do ya? I'm a dress man, myself. Can you cook? Cuz' I like to eat. Sometimes I get put on the late shift and I need sombody to slop my hogs come daybreak. Do you like animals? I hope so. And any of you other womens readin', keep an eye out for me. I'm havin' trouble with my truck, so, you'll need a vehical. I want awomen that can can my vegtibles. so you red head girl, you wanna' get holda me?
That was funny. How about this one? It's not from a movie nor probably accurate. But, it went something like this. Upon receiving an invitation to join a country club previously excluding jews. Groucho Marx replied " Sirs, I could never belong to any organization that would have one such as me as a member "
here, take my jacket. it's warm wanna' see a monkey? AWWK! Drown 'em like puppies. I think I'm gonna like it here Plato, what's a chickie run? sure, it's all I ever do I got the bullets If I had just one day. one day, where I didn't have to be afraid all the time.
Is it sane to believe? There are a number of parameters in which to address this question. A second question may be required. What is sanity? By this I am only pointing out where it is that sanity actually takes us. Is it insane to believe, if that is what is required to further or maintain ourselves in our brief tenure as living humans on earth? Are you better off to believe or not to believe. That all depends on where you are geographically, politically, morally, etc. etc. etc. and so on. It could very well be sane to believe as we are merely finite. As well, it would be as accurate to say that we do not believe as we are merely finite. It becomes like arguing religion. There's no winner. Ones that agree with you are in tune. Those who don't are alienated. Faith is the deepest mystery of all and shall remain so. Sanity could never bear witness as to the existence of a supreme being.
I speak not of things physical, visual. But of psychological, sociological, neurological. I don't believe that commercial interests could ever determine attitudal influence. Perhaps as a species, we'll never know. Apparently influences lodged upon each genders psychi through time, for each of us has our own hill to climb, has only led us here. It seems a shame. But, we should be each others' best friend.
"woman" has garnered more resolve. She is more generous. More sensuous. It seems that only good things (in my perspective) occur in woman as the years pass. One would possibly be surprised at the incredible passion and uninhibitedness of woman of age. Woman attempts to get along. Unfortunately, not enough men (or women), have the sense to say "hello in there" to our ladies and to have experiences earth shattering enough "to hear the angels sing". I think I'm done now. There's a 62 year old redheaded woman ringing my doorbell.
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RE: When do you really trust someone you've met online?
I've only been on this site less than two months. This is my first ever experience of socializing on-line. So, of course, I have been treading the rocky road of relating with folks unknown heretofore. It has been an emotional roller-coaster, to say the least. Apparently, I am quite gullible and easily smitten. I have become enamored with many, only to discover it to be misplaced affection, trust. However, there is one woman that I have continued to be something akin to close to, for over a month. We keep touch by telephone practically every day. Usually we talk for an hour or so, but often for over three hours. Plus e-mails and other communications. Having written this, nonetheless, in our relationship, we share a sense of reality. In that, and we have discussed this, although we are eager to meet in real life, we must allow more time to pass so that we are allowed to glean a proper, more in depth, insight of one another. Plus it's a long distance relationship. Not too far from one another, but you wouldn't want to motor the journey. So, we have an idea in mind of, should we still share our mutual interest, perhaps meeting and spending some time together, hmm 4, 5, 6, more months down the road. At least it won't be a frozen mile that we might travel together. In a nutshell, after posing this lengthy preamble, to answer your question, yes. Yes, I trust my friend very, very much. This particular relationship has been different than others. We have not wallowed in passionate, emotional platitudes of one another. Just a touch here and there, instead most of our breath has been utilized for common thoughts and values. Doesn't sound too romantic, does it? But should we become two lucky ones, romance shall bloom and flower about us joyfully for the rest of our lives.