People (of both genders) have their preferences whom they wish to date, it wouldn't make sense to start a relationship if there is no attraction between two people. Hence specifying in their profiles what they want. Though it doesn't mean it's what they get. Again, both -- men and women.
And there is absolutely nothing wrong with a guy "who is trustworthy, honest, educated, loves kids", but it's going to be 'her' decision if you are *all that*.
since every CS woman gets these same emails from men half their age (and/or unsuitable otherwise), it all been already explained in lengths and too many times in emails and in forums (meaning the guys here know and don't need more explanation),
hence if you want to be polite, plain 'no, but thanks no' will do.
Laura25 Forum Posts (8,178)
Hi Ocee, 
RE: BAD,BAD WOMEN
I was about to ask how do you get a man to stop biting his nails...
But I won't... now that we are none bashing and stuff...