A bit of humor would be a good start. And be yourself, you'll be fine.
For me - it's 'his' mind that makes 'him' very attractive, then his heart and his personality (yes, in this order) - if it shines through, always gets response.
Welcome to CS, Starting.
P.S. Many people don't respond because they are not *real*, meaning they are not who they say they are - you'll learn in time...
but is case if I was wrong about your intentions (which I know I was not)...
...think about this... my son-in-law is your age and he works hard to make a living for his family - his wife and his 3 children. That's quite a responsibility. But that's what people do for the loved ones. When they care that is.
What stops you from doing it{making a living} for yourself?
that's why I pointed out these offensive, culturally biased,
and most of all unwarranted generalizations in your post.
From whichever side you look at OP's posts,
there is nothing respectful or honorable in his twisted intentions...
The way he feels? Sheeesh...
...someone who feels compassion, does something about it,
something besides looking to commit a fraud or solicit money from strangers.
Getting a job, and a 2nd job if needed, and helping his parents out of their debt as opposed to threatening to send them deeper into this debt by forcing funeral expenses on them, would be compassionate.
RE: Are Misogynists... and Misandrists