I3estman4u Forum Posts (568)

RE: are you watching american idol?

That went out after 9/11.

RE: are you watching american idol?

Why would I want to? Those shows are not for me.

RE: First divorce

It just seems people want good relationships without ethics...right jlw45?

RE: First divorce

I agree. She even admitted that, "but friends say that until I do..he will always behave this way!"...speaking of getting a divorce. When I mentioned that a divorce will give him no reason to act this way, I had her and a few others jumping on my case. I guess she must think her friends are loons also. To me it's just unethical to still be legally married and looking to date. It doesn't matter if they are committed to the marriage or not, it's the principle of it. It's like starting another relationship before the last one is through...makes no sense to me. Oh that's right, she will tell you she didn't file because she cares about his finances.

RE: America's Non-existent Border

not all there....she can't help it.

RE: Iam new

Hello Tabitha....nice to meet you. Hope you enjoy your stay on CS.

RE: Why do Men love BAD Girls?

Yes I agree. Guys that want bad girls are not ready or capable to settle down.

I'm sure you will find him and he find you.

RE: Flights grounded.

Why is that sick? Maybe you just want to fly around a while and land the plane.

Man, people today are really touched by politics. I didn't find anything wrong with what he said.....in and of itself.

RE: Who's the Biggest......

People do that on here, Dobe. I just laugh at them. Be true to yourself is all that matters. I honestly can't remember ever reading anything you posted that was nasty or out of context. What makes me really chuckle is they slam you for saying what you say, then they turn around and do the very same...and it's justified in their minds.

Again, I do not remember you saying anything that would cause you to seem pompous, or a mean person. You take good care.

RE: A quote that inspires you?

Better to have others think of you as a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

Author Unknown

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I love making friends

RE: First divorce

I have the right to say my peace, thank you. You, sir, have the same right to remain silent, so for the love of us all, SHUT UP!
~author myself~

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The original issue was not her being angry at him...which I have not even alluded to. And I am not angry at my ex (hmmm...pot meet kettle). And no, the fact that they are still married is a direct issue. Nor was her helping him with finances is the original issue. But him reacting to her dating as she stated in her OP.

NEXT!

RE: First divorce

Go ahead, say it. I have big enough shoulders.

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I'm not angry Nanners. I said what I felt needed to be said is all. To be honest what you do doesn't affect me at all.

However,I do hope this works out for the both of you.

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I owe you nothing.

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Okay

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Now this is a different story all together from what Nanners is saying. Your ex has no reason for being that way at all. And he IS an ex, unlike Nanner & her husband.

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Let me guess as to why that is....Umm...unethical?

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Uh huh....now you are above the law I see. Nice.

G'day.

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Ah..."of the likes of me" huh? You see, Nanners, you do the same that others do to you but you feel justified and condemn others for it. You don't know me either. And even more so that I haven't even posted anything of this sort at all. The more you open your mouth, the more you reveal your attitude in relationships.

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Well, that is your choice and rightly so. But the responsibility is with the person that left, not stayed.

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How so?

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I am myself. I just refuse to feed her full of wishful thinking. I also put myself in her husbands shoes. I have nothing against her personally, but I do with her actions concerning this.

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lmao...No dude. She left him....didn't you read that? Because of that, it's up to her to file not him. I wasn't willing to divorce my ex and so I wasn't about to file. I took/take my vows seriously.

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Look, Nanners, that's the reality of divorce. Now either your marriage was bad enough for you to leave and accept the fallout, or you just got tired of him and want a new guy in your life.

Okay, it's fair that you are friends and still care about his well being. But this idea that you date and he is supposed to be "okay" with that is bunk.

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Well, I am certain that if her husband was on here, he'd have a totally different story of what's really true.

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Based on what she shared, I can make a judgment...and it's not like I'm the only one making a judgment. We all make judgments everyday ffs. And if you read what she said correctly, he is NOT an ex, but her husband still....legally. No...moving on is settling it once and for all. She has not done that. I don't know why you are making excuses for her. But you are sounding like an idiot...I'm sorry.