Swissblueeyes Forum Posts (3,371)

RE: Amazingly Natural Phenomenon

cool...I love the picts..thanks..

RE: Obedient

nope..i dont like control freeks who try to control me..lol

RE: Friends With Benefits FWB

RE: what shall we talk about?

well whats the new topic gonna be? lol..

RE: O.k., what have you got in Wiesbaden/Mainz/Frankfurt?

RE: What would it take?

It would take one very good man to prove to me with his actions he isnt just full of bs..I've met in my life way to many bad ones and now I feel protective, but not to the point where I wouldnt at least give someone a chance to try and get to know me.
So far every man I've allowed to call me has shown he has ulteriour motives and not right for me..So, maybe some century I might meet one who is really a decent guy?? well heres to hoping anyways.. lol..

RE: I think I’ve made a big mistake…

RE: I think I’ve made a big mistake…

for a minute i was thinking my ex conned another victim.. lol.. aww its a kitty cat?
you could always put a add in the craigs list for free kitty..

RE: Do You Want to Get Married and Why?

Its not getting married that is hard to find, its getting married to the "right" man that is hard to find.
at least for me it is.
I would like to get married to a good man who im attracted to that can take care of himself, doesnt need me to pay half his bills and have me work like a man and come home and do most everything.
I felt used and abused by my ex and never want to do that again.
Next time if I ever marry again its going to have to be a man who proved he is the right one for me. otherwise im fine being single..its been less work and less drama lol

RE: the world

RE: How can u tell if someone is single & available?

what is polyamorous?

RE: Never date a man wearing leather trousers unless he is a biker.

RE: Before I was...... Now I am....

before i was lost but now i am found.

RE: How can u tell if someone is single & available?

That is a good question..I'm not sure every guy who's says he is single really is single..?

RE: Would you like to date a guy like me?

aww, cheer up..your profile looks nice..i dont see why you shouldnt find someone right for you in your area or something..good luck in your search.

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

He said he was 49 but when I met him he looked like he was 67.
I was only 38 at the time and the waitress looked at him then me and said what does your daughter want to order?
LOL..I almost wanted to hide underneath the booth after she said that..
Now I ask for men to have a current photo taken with a digital camera or go on web cam before I even think of meeting.

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

ya i would rather see a profile with a photo up fully clothed than a profile with no photo at all or a naked one..I dont mind if they chose to take the photo in the mirror..With all the demands of having current photos up, its not easy to always have someone on hand to take one of us every 6 months.
Especially if we are very busy with work and other things.

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

oh i had a guy i met who did that too, it was a very old photo that he couldnt load up on the computer without taking a pict of it again and posting it..when i met him i was thinking he sent his dad to meet me cause he was obviously 20 years older looking than his photo..lol.
i should have known better too because in that photo it was very outdated clothes and car.

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

I've seen those too..It helps me to know how they keep their room and if I should avoid meeting them.. lol

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

I think she means a picture of picture taken off the net of a mountain scenery, eiffel tower, or magazine cover, ect..

RE: hello to all

RE: Profile pics taken by oneself with camera on show.

well if they have clothes on its ok i guess.
I cant stand the picts sent to me of guys half naked with a pot belly hanging out or worse, single body shot photos of things i would rather not see before i meet and date the guy for awhile..

RE: Coming out of a broken relationship straight into another?...

I've done it too and it never seems to work..Rushing into a relationship is just a bad idea anyways..
I believe a person should take some time out and figure out what it is they want and dont want along with some time to heal.

RE: Does it bother you if you get rubbish photo ratings?

oh ok..well i still dont care what they rate it at..i only look at the ones who seem to be very interested anyways..thanks for letting me know..

RE: Does it bother you if you get rubbish photo ratings?

It doesnt bother me at all..I really havent gotten any bad ratings but seeing how most men rate me a 8 or 10 im kinda confused how the rating scale shows my one photo as a little under 7? While my other photos I have up show rated 8 or above?
I mostly just use the ratings on my profile as a indicator of who might be interested in me.

RE: Hurt people hurt others

I agree..Once you know a person can be trusted it is a good idea to open up and give them that trust.
I also believe though that it isnt wise to trust just anyone or too soon.
Trust has to be earned first..Otherwise we might end up in a situation that we could have avoided.

RE: Hurt people hurt others

some of them lash out and take their problems out on people, and others just hurt themselves..
it all depends on the person who is hurting and how they handle it.

RE: Is shyness a choice for mature people?

I can be shy in some situations but not all of them.
In my opinion a persons personlity usually stays pretty much the same as they grow older with maybe a few moderations.

RE: Happy Birthday patmac

RE: ?

I think for men it would be completely different experience than it is for us women..