Swissblueeyes Forum Posts (3,371)

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

Thank you too Toney..

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

Thank you Atwoz..

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

how much does she weigh and how tall is she?
it seems like he is ok with dating her and seeing her but weight is a issue before getting married?

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

I would be ok with losing weight as long as it wasnt too much and would not make me anorexic..
I went down to 85 lbs once and scared my family because I got obsessed with trying to be perfect after a short term break up with a man I was in love with.
I gained back 20 lbs after we got back together but it is no laughing matter when women are pushed over the edge to try and make themselves something they think will be more desireable.
Its a known fact there are many bulemic and anorexic women out there because of this image of perfection we are suppose to emulate.. I'm just glad I got out before it was too late.

RE: Do women run from NICE guys?

oh thats not true atwoz..I sent you a response on cs here and I know it is too far of a distance for you to meet me, I liked your profile..
There must be some ladys over there in Sweeden who would also think the same..

RE: Do women run from NICE guys?

Wilson..I'm cracking up about the choice of name and that wilson ball you got posted on your profile..I remember that movie with Tom Hanks in it..Your profile reminded me of how funny it was hanks had it as his only friend on that island..lol..sorry didnt mean to hijack the thread anyone..

RE: Do women run from NICE guys?

In my opinion you are brainwashing yourself into believing we all run from nice men..
Havent you been reading any of our posts?

RE: tell me your opinion please

I dont see anything wrong with your profile..You look amazing for your age too..Maybe you should say what it is you are looking for in a guy? Your opening post didnt say what type of man your looking for..

RE: lonely

Just some friendly advise here but I noticed the age range your looking to date and 18 years old is in my opinion a girl and a bit too young for a guy 33 years old..If you want a real relationship without disappointment then maybe you should boost the age up a little starting at maybe 25? Revamp your profile and post a nice photo up that is a little better to see..Your first photo is in a dark room and hard to see what you look like..
Make a photo of you smiling, fresly showered and dressed smartly in a well lit room..It might help..K?

RE: Kate Middleton

Yes why not? Hes handsome and seems sweet..
Kate is a lucky girl..& no I dont think either of them are virgins..They have been together over 8 years.

RE: Hello

well i dont like to be treated disposable by any guy, money or no money..

RE: How do you like your steak?

I like mine medium and cooked on a grill...mmm..yummy

RE: who is going to want me now?

I agree the op is worrying too much and it most likely is because she has been left alone by some scoundrel of a guy who wasnt worthy of her love.
Even women who dont have children meet those kind of men and its a shame some guys are only out for their selfish needs.
There are some good guys out there who will love a woman with children and some will love a woman who doesnt have children.
It just takes some patience and time to find that right guy.
dont give up Texas, your still young and there is hope out there. Just dont settle for a guy simply because your afraid of being alone..You have children who love you and need your support..It wont help them if your focus is on getting some guy to love you..Love them and yourself and focus on what is important untill the "right" man comes along..Patience is not easy for most people but it is always a good thing to practice if you want a good life..

RE: When No One's Looking

RE: Hi, I'm for real and honest!

RE: Ladies: Can You Sew?

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RE: would u live in the Britains cheapest street?

I have never lived in England but that does seem like a very cheap price for a home..Is it in a very bad neighborhood?

RE: who is going to want me now?

Dont give up hope..There are many people out there with more than a few children and they found love again..I would suggest you focus for now on your children and just try and make friendships..Your still young, life isnt over at only 29..
Your children need you to be a mommy for them..You can sue the man who left you with twins for support..Seems a shame there are men out there like him..

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RE: Don´t you just hate it when.......

Oh ya I hate when I call about a erronious charge on a bill I receive and I get transferred to several different depts or people..It seems like every time I have a day off and I have to call about something they waste at least a hour of my time doing that.
I did however complain and got 25 dollars additionally knocked off my bill for my inconvinece..lol..So along with my bill finally being sorted out and put correctly I got a additional amount credited too.. So, sometimes it helps to find the right department and person..

RE: why R u in international site?

RE: why R u in international site?

I'm on here because my family came from Switzerland and I love to make friends..As far as love goes, I dont think it is wrong if you want to meet people from other countries..good luck in your search..

RE: Am I foolishly naiive and romantic.

Aww, Thanks V and Sazzy..

RE: Am I foolishly naiive and romantic.

I agree it can get lonely but that is the tender trap for us women..If we cave into feeling lonely then it gives a bad man a more easy acess into our lives because we are hoping to fulfill our dreams of happiness with a man we are attracted to.
I fell into that trap several times and realized you can be lonely in a bad relationship and can be worse than living alone.
Keep your chin up and try to be strong.
If you feel lonely, call a friend up, go shopping or to some event ect..
Paige Parker has some good dating articles, you can go onto her web page and sign up for some free email advice she sends regularly on how to date and keep yourself from unnecessary hurt and drama.
It has helped me a lot..Good luck..k..

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

I think it is easier to find someone who we dont feel we need to change than to try and change someones behaviour..People are usually creatures of habit and most dont like being forced to change anything..

RE: Am I foolishly naiive and romantic.

Unfortunately being needy does not insure that the men you meet will not try and take advantage of this.
Be careful not to fall into the feeling lonely trap and make mistakes in judgment.
Sometimes patience and self respect have a better outcome than wanting to feel in love too soon.
It might sound cliche but happiness starts from within and loving yourself first before others can truely love you.
Dont settle for less than what you deserve or will give others.
I would forget the ex..He doesnt sound like he really deserved the love he got.

RE: No contact

you can check members on facebook or do a google on his name on there and see if anything comes up..although sometimes people choose to make their profile private and it appears like they arent on it..so you cant really assume he deleted his profile.
my guess is if he deleted you off his profile without explaining why then it is probably over..if you have any doubts just wait a week and see if he calls.
if he doesnt call in a week then it is over.
most men will not disappear for over a week and not at least email or send a text or something, if they are interested.

RE: No contact

Does he still have his membership on Facebook? Or did he single you out and just delete you off his facebook?
If he still has his profile up on facebook and you are deleted off his friends list then I would safely assume he isnt interested in you .