daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
I think nice guys (and nice girls, for that matter) get a lot of bad press when it comes to dating potential.
Nice is always awesome, but it's like a sense of humour, bravery or confidence - all appealing traits, but none of them are enough in isolation to create that 'click'.
It's always the total package that appeals, not just one facet of someone's personality.
We are all far more complex people than the descriptor of 'nice' allows. Often, that's all someone will see at first. I think this is why some guys complain of being renegated to the 'friend' camp - they're not too nice to date, its just that 'nice' is the only aspect of their personality a particular girl has seen up until that point. It usually just means that the girl doesn't know him very well yet.
The answer, guys? Be yourself, faults, idiosyncrasies and all.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
gemeh22: nope
I want a true nice guy not one that CLAIMS he is a nice guy! BIG difference
Bought gifts that you don't want, but are forced upon you with the expectation that the fella gets to rule the roost and have his own selfish way all the time, is no substitute for mutual respect and an equal partnership.
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
"inner circle"...what is this inner circle Blaine? And you as a "nice guy", uh no.... We want a guy who will be protective and show that he "can be" bad to everyone else but us. BUT be a little bad in the bedroom.....
Some do some dont, a lot of women are looking for the "bad boy". And the ones looking for the "nice guy" tend to run when they find him. I'm not saying all women are like that, but a majority of ones i've met are.
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
I love "genuine" nice guys..I run from men who say they are nice and trying to sell me some obvious line..I think also the men who are extremely needy who are half stalkerish, but claim to be nice can be scary too.
Not sure who is the "inner circle" ..... I think nice guys are great, but they also need to be manly (if that makes sense?). Know when to take charge etc. ... I think sometimes guys can be too wimpy and not be able to lead (I perfer a man who is like that).
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