Do women run from NICE guys? (229)
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
No all women want a nice guy... With maybe a hint of bad boy in there
The good,the bad and the ugly
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I like nice men that know when to be bad boys 
venusenvy: I like nice men that know when to be bad boys
Actually, I should change that to Good men that know when to be bad..."nice" is so wimpy. It takes a lot more than nice to win a ladies heart.
venusenvy: I like nice men that know when to be bad boys
Oh yes they do, you got that right.
gemeh22: nope
I want a true nice guy not one that CLAIMS he is a nice guy! BIG difference
I want a true nice guy not one that CLAIMS he is a nice guy! BIG difference
jac379: Bought gifts that you don't want, but are forced upon you with the expectation that the fella gets to rule the roost and have his own selfish way all the time, is no substitute for mutual respect and an equal partnership.
you hit the nail on its head 
I think right "those nice guys" just think of themselves, that they are nice, but fact ~ they aint at all
awww I'm such a nice girl
but no one wants me either
why only do men run from oh so NICE Ladies?
Many people on this thread have asked for a definition of a nice guy, I think they missed this spot on response.
And vice versa...
Now, I'm sure someone is going to ask how to define a "good guy" instead...
How about a man is a "good" guy when he respects the woman enough, and has the intestinal fortitude, to tell her what he wants from her up front. That way there is no confusion and second guessing.... Again, that definition applys to "good" women as well.
vyoleta: A guy who dates a girl for the same reason she dates him.
And vice versa...
Now, I'm sure someone is going to ask how to define a "good guy" instead...
How about a man is a "good" guy when he respects the woman enough, and has the intestinal fortitude, to tell her what he wants from her up front. That way there is no confusion and second guessing.... Again, that definition applys to "good" women as well.
devon80: Oh yes they do, you got that right.
I'm just a bad boy, a really naughty one
Depends on what you mean by nice guys.
romanticman4u: You never met me then I am both naturally nice and naturally good in bed
i'm the best
venusenvy: Actually, I should change that to Good men that know when to be bad..."nice" is so wimpy. It takes a lot more than nice to win a ladies heart.
Oh boy, could I tell you about nice guys....
I met what I thought was a "nice" guy at work in 1981. Couple years later I learned, from his own mouth, that he was planning to steal thousands of dollars worth of computer equipment from work. Dumped that one
Years later I met a nice guy on CS. One month later I learned he had been in a federal prison. Dumped that one too
We women tell their girlfriends about a first date with a guy, she'll say "he was nice" but we don't mean that he was a sweet talker. Nice guy means polite, courteous, good listener.
Example of a sweet talker was Ted Bundy. Women that met him thought he was a "nice" guy.
I think Venus made a good point that we want good men who underneath have good qualities but look like the Marlboro man who will show us a good time in the bedroom as well at a dinner table with friends.
i like to think i'm a nice guy and the ladies really don't want a nice guy and thats why i'm single....but it may just be that i am pug ugly
irishrebel75: i like to think i'm a nice guy and the ladies really don't want a nice guy and thats why i'm single....but it may just be that i am pug ugly
You are not ugly, sorry mate it was the smelly feet, maybe that's all over now that the fav slippers are gone
irishrebel75: i like to think i'm a nice guy and the ladies really don't want a nice guy and thats why i'm single....but it may just be that i am pug ugly
I run from nice guys because I don't want to mess their minds up
im sure there's more to it, like my love for the stout...and hockey
I think nice guys run from women
viva007: I think nice guys run from women
any smart one does
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
i think not only women, but people in general want somebody who's genuinely nice.
Yes, absolutely. Something strange in the human psyche accounts for the fact that people--both men and women love to be lied to. Most women who I know and have known would like to marry a nice man, but think nothing about fulfilling their pleasure and will jump into intimate encounters with a handsome, lying, selfish SOB.
RiczardG: Yes, absolutely. Something strange in the human psyche accounts for the fact that people--both men and women love to be lied to. Most women who I know and have known would like to marry a nice man, but think nothing about fulfilling their pleasure and will jump into intimate encounters with a handsome, lying, selfish SOB.
aint it the truth
Do women run from NICE guys?
They try to, but I always get them with my crossbow !!
They try to, but I always get them with my crossbow !!
What is a "nice guy"? It is very subjective.Is a nice person someone who you can totally respect in their words actions and deeds? Is a "bad guy" a guy who will say and do things that both you and he know is wrong?
Do people get turned on by a partner who does and says things that are wrong/you do not agree with?
If the "bad boy" is an attraction then is it not the case that in the end what attracts you will also be the same reasons that the relationship/s fail?
I think that some people set themselves up for endless relationship failures because who attracts them will also repel them eventually.
Do people get turned on by a partner who does and says things that are wrong/you do not agree with?
If the "bad boy" is an attraction then is it not the case that in the end what attracts you will also be the same reasons that the relationship/s fail?
I think that some people set themselves up for endless relationship failures because who attracts them will also repel them eventually.
SummerUK: I run from nice guys because I don't want to mess their minds up
I've got other bits you could concentrate on?
ColonelBogey: What is a "nice guy"? It is very subjective.Is a nice person someone who you can totally respect in their words actions and deeds? Is a "bad guy" a guy who will say and do things that both you and he know is wrong?
Do people get turned on by a partner who does and says things that are wrong/you do not agree with?
If the "bad boy" is an attraction then is it not the case that in the end what attracts you will also be the same reasons that the relationship/s fail?
I think that some people set themselves up for endless relationship failures because who attracts them will also repel them eventually.
Do people get turned on by a partner who does and says things that are wrong/you do not agree with?
If the "bad boy" is an attraction then is it not the case that in the end what attracts you will also be the same reasons that the relationship/s fail?
I think that some people set themselves up for endless relationship failures because who attracts them will also repel them eventually.
You think too much mate, all this introspection will just do your head in, just try and enjoy life whilst you are young.
RiczardG: Yes, absolutely. Something strange in the human psyche accounts for the fact that people--both men and women love to be lied to. Most women who I know and have known would like to marry a nice man, but think nothing about fulfilling their pleasure and will jump into intimate encounters with a handsome, lying, selfish SOB.
Especially a man that can Lie and say their butt looks amazingly thin...
SUNSHINEB0Y: You think too much mate, all this introspection will just do your head in, just try and enjoy life whilst you are young.
I do not have to rattle my brains very much to state something like that. The people who know me in real life are the only ones who can state if I am too introspective to enjoy my life.
But I do have a very active one.
Blain69: So it is said on the "inner circle" that women really are tired of nice guys..
I'd like to know where all the "nice" guys are
2intrigued: I'd like to know where all the "nice" guys are
Ahem
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I dont know what "inner circle" youve been hangin about with Blain, but you need to change that up