You write about your temper, this can be a big turn off, this does not do you a favour and it would be better if it does not appear in the description. Regarding your photo, the one with only feet is weird, who do you want to attract with it? If it gets high rating (above 8) from men who you would like to date keep it otherwise delete it and replace it by a photo taken by a friend of yours doing some activity you would like to enjoy with your future husband.
You have very good photos. Maybe the description could be extended, including information whether you are interested in relocating. Maybe there are too few men living near Jakarta in the age you are looking for. This would be more a weakness of this site than a weakness of your profile.
To improve your profile you may wish to add a few pictures, preferably in various settings where you are active and avoiding selfies. For example ask a friend to take a few photos of you in your favourite hobbies or during some sightseeing in your town. You can try different pictures and see how people react to those. There is also a function on this site for rating photos, we could check which ones are preferred by the men in the age group you are targetting.
Regarding your pictures, they seem to be selfies. It would be a good idea to ask a friend of yours to take some photos, one with the face and one from a distance. Try to take one of the photo outdoors, showing more life or activity. Selfies often give bad impressions especially for people who are not teenagers anymore.
You would increase your chances by correcting spelling mistakes, as at your age they may give the impression that you were in a rush and men with higher education may ignore your profile for that reason. Car selfie and mirror selfie may be acceptable for the youngst women, they are less suitable for someone older than 40, especially when most of the population owns a car, being in a car makes you look too ordinary. The best photos are ones taken by your friends, selfies on the other hand give the impression that you have none.
There may not be so many men in the demographic you are searching for in an area manageable for dating. Maybe most users are bsed in the USA and here in Europe the chances of finding someone compatible are more limited. You may try other strategies than online dating to find someone or wait for this site to have a larger marker share of the European market.
Maybe ask a friend to take some photos of you, having only one photo may not be optimal. You could also specify your willingness to relocate or preference for a partner living close to your city.
The photo where you are on a bed taking a selfie is not to your advantage. Maybe you could ask a friend to take some pictures of you and select the best ones, try to find some nice locations around where you live to shoot the photos, maybe some of your favourite hobbies. The photos that were taken from a distance are fine and I encourage you to keep them.
Putting pictures of yourself would increase the response rate, especially if you show various aspects of your personality in different settings. Try one photo with your face and another from a distance giving an impression of your whole body, preferably wearing good clothes.
To describe who you would like to meet, it would be better to describe your ideal match instead of elements to be avoided. Especially since someone does a keyword search with these words your profile may appear amongst the first. Try to be in each photo you post.
Regarding your pictures, they are all selfies, this may attract the younger men but for people in your age range in may be a disadvantage. Maybe you could put some pictures taken by friends of yours, if possible different activities and not only at home in front of your computer.
A few of your pictures are selfies, it may be fine for young women to use them as profile pictures, they may not be the best for men in the age groups you are looking for and grew up before selfies became fashion. You already have enough valid pictures, maybe you can ask a friend to take a few pictures of you in different situations to add one or two photos as replacement for the selfies.
The body gives information about the health of a potential partner, her fertility level and her chances of having a long life. Her character is key to make the relationship last, gives information about her ways of raising the children and dealing with people in general. Compatibility of values is more important. Besides the heart does not decay as fast as other parts of the body.
You are not too picky, maybe in your demographics it can be a challenge to find someone on this site with 100 miles of your place, you may wish to extend this. Or maybe as the Church is very important to you, find someone through Church activities instead of online.
There is nothing wrong with that, each person has the right to make their own decision in this aspect. The best is just to ignore those messages as they are likely to show that you do not have the same values as the person who wrote that. You will be better off with someone who finds it a good decision.
Avoid saing that you are bored, it may give the impression that you are in a rush.
You may write a few more things in the 'about me' and 'looking for' sections. A big issue is your location, it is not easy to get a visa for Saudi Arabia, so meeting for date can be complicated for people not living there.
Your pictures are good, they are diverse and give a good impression.
If you say that you are bored, it sounds weird, you would get better answer by asking more specific questions about things to change in your profile. You may try having different photos and see which ones tend to attract the men you are looking for.
To meet someone you may wish to go out, Novi Sad is probably not a too small city. At your age, you may have better chance if you find some hobbies that let you meet new people in person, be more active in the community.
You have the same problem many women face on online dating sites, especially the free sites. You may wish to use a paid for site as it will keep some at bay if they cannot affort to pay for the membership.
If you want to use free sites,try to find one with a large user base in your area. Or try a few ones and decide which works best for you.
On this site, you could be more proactive and writing to the men with interesting profiles.
Single parents have a hard time as it limits to options for moving and some men may prefer to start a family.
People at your age are not the most frequent users of online dating sites. Maybe you could invest in membership in some site for seniors or meet people locally by joining some activities where you could meet people of your age.
It seems that you shot the photos yourself. It would be more interesting if a friend of yours took some photos and them you select the two to five best ones. The best would be to show yourself doing some activities you would like to share with your future husband or maybe some tourist attractions of Thailand.
Maybe you could replace your mirror selfie with a photo showing you in an activity that you like, maybe something you would like to do with your future husband, asking a friend to take the photo for you. Or go somewhere as a tourist and ask another tourist at random to take a photo. Maybe 20 years ago it was a status symbol to have a cell phone, now that almost everyone has a one, it does not make you stand out of the crowd.
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RE: New ! I'd my profile good?
You are rather young and would probably have more chances to meet someone in your town outside of the computer world.