looking good vs feeling good
If you feel good, does it matter what you look like?My guy still stacks pretty well against anyone on the beach. I don't. He says wear a costume anyway. I say no chance.
He pointed out 2 entirely separate women as we were sitting in a boardwalk cafe.
One was wearing a long-sleeved shirt, long slacks with a glimpse of ankle, closed beach shoes. She looked hot, fretful and miserable, but very proper.
The other was wearing a bikini and flipflops. Her boobs hung to her waist, her waist hung over the bottom part of the bikini, and her legs shook as she walked. She was having a whale of a time, completely ignoring the people staring at her disapprovingly.
It did make me think. Sure, comes a time when we don't look so good in a swimsuit. Stop swimming? Does anyone else care what we look like?
He said so when the upper arms are no longer toned and firm - long sleeves?
When the toes are less than pretty. No more sandals?
At what point does one decide to stay indoors for the rest of your life?
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They say " If you've got it, flaunt it" ...not my style. I prefer to have some decency and leave something for the imagination...
After that, I don't really care. No one knows me at any beach, I paint my toenails which makes them look nice in sandals and someone likes my bum the way it is.
Don't hold yourself back Vivian.
And no not in Ireland either, although that is hopefully on the agenda for sometime this year, never been, would love to go. Would have liked to go around now since it seems quite a few CS people are heading that way or already on holiday there but that's not possible.