VivianLee

Jun 2015

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The trick is to know exactly what you want.

Do you? I realized the other day that I don't. I just want someone to offer me interesting options and wait anxiously for my careful consideration

My daughter has a poster that says it all. I don't ask much of a man. He just has to be handsome, sexy, funny, clever, rich, athletic, adoring, and prepared to feed me ice-cream in bed every night for the rest of my life.

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

Actually the poster has about 20 other things, I didn't bother to go check it. Those are the ones that stuck in my memory.

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

I'm not unreasonable.

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

I think as we get older...we have more time on our hands....imagine all the lovely things we could do with the right man....

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Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Jun 8, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

Viv

I want one too!!!

Jokes aside, I did feed my man some yummy Vanilla ice-cream couple of days ago. We were in this really cozy ice-cream parlour ( my choice of course!

) and we sat cross-legged. I used his knee to put the plate on and I used my fingers to feed him the waffles and ice-cream!!

He got stomach ache the following day.........

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dutchfreckles●maaseik, Limburg Belgium

Jun 8, 2015●5 Blogs●120 Comments

i now what i want , and what i don't whant ,and now i get older so picker i get by the years ,don't settle for les,

i now to be picky is not always good , bud the hell ,better living alone ,than with the wrong one

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

Calypso, do you have a list? travel, theatre, social, that sort of thing? Give us ideas ...

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

Mimi, he has to feed you, you got it the wrong way round

Sounds like it was worth getting stomach ache for, though

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

Dutch, hell on earth to be with the wrong guy. But the chances of finding someone spot on, no adjustment or fine-tuning required, unless I was absolutely perfect myself (soooo not) are non-existent ..

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

In my dreams.....travelling europe in a motor-home...with a man whom i feel totally relaxed with....and who loves dogs.....

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#10

Mimi!

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#11

Calypso, I know 3 guys who just fell in love with you on the spot. Your mailbox is about to go nuclear.

Enjoy ...

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loveallnite●Eyjafjallajökull, Westfjords Iceland

Jun 8, 2015●573 Comments

#12

Motorhome touring with a hot doll and dogs, hots-dogs that is

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

#13

Vivian....

....who are these guys....do they have a motorhome and dog....

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

#14

I do like a man who can cook up something delicious and who smells nice....

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#15

One of them has, and it's a beaut. Also a villa in Spain for winter, but he's a bit old. One of them wants the motorhome life and likes dogs well enough, but couldn't join you for a few more years. One of them is in South Africa, so would have to get over here.

The last 2, you'd have to provide the motorhome, the dog, and be very, very patient because they are dreamer types and not very reliable, but I think you could sort them out

they just need a firm hand. You know what you want - go for it.

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#16

Heavens, yes, if you are to be in a motorhome they'd have to smell nice - that's close up and personal, that is.

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

#17

..well, i have the dog

...he will have to supply the motorhome...

...he will also have to do the driving, while i rest my hand gently on his knee

...and he will have to put up with abit of cigarette smoke...which will rule out most men...

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#18

The old chap wouldn't care what you did with your other hand, if one was on his knee. He's 70, though. You're all right with the other 2, they both smoke, I think. How many messages have you had so far?

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Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Jun 8, 2015●800 Comments

#19

Zero....

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#20

they are all wording them carefully to sound irresistible. Or not on line. Maybe start a blog saying MOTORHOME DRIVER WANTED? All men seem to have a hankering for the idea of the gypsy life. Very few women ... we are in the minority, I think.

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#21

go and find out - live dangerously

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KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

#22

I knew and had what I want when I was younger (and now again). Gave some other things a try but back to square one.

The older anyone gets, the less people (and choice) is out there - and they have often baggage, don't know what they want etc.

That's just me, I think the need of having a partner in your life isn't as strong when getting older - unless it's really, really the right one.

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#23

KN, guilty as charged, one of those who don't know what I want. Maybe the trick of knowing someone is the right person is that it suddenly all becomes very simple?

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KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

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I think so Vivian. If something is hard work in the start it never went anywhere for me.

With the right guys things came easily, it was fun and not one bit of work and hassle (at least until the very end when something totally incompatible came up - like a father in law etc.

)

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KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

#25

Hiya wallops,

hope all is well.

Does he have a brother?

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wallops1964●Wakefield, West Yorkshire, England UK

Jun 8, 2015●24 Blogs●2,327 Comments

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He does Kn,

He is one of 7!

lA bit like 7 brides for 7 brothers!

(mine is Howard Keel look alike with his voice

except whist being all rouged he knows just how to treat a woman.

We could just all meet up for a big annual reunion.... Oh sounds such fun!

Getting excited for our first meet up.

Like Viv says we can wave to each other from our windows... With gorgeous flower boxes on them.

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KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

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Hmmm, looks like there are enough brothers for a good few single ladies.

Would be great to meet up wallops

(although looks like Mimi is out

) but can we just meet in a hotel and not a camper please.

Speaking of flowers - I planted some 2 weeks ago and with all the rain here, they have no blossoms left.

I'll bring cheesecake btw.

and we have to have some night out with dancing.

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online today!

zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Jun 8, 2015●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

#28

Been there, done that, got the T-Shirt & sold it 15 years ago

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VivianLeeOP●Livingston, Lothian, Scotland UK

Jun 8, 2015●89 Blogs●796 Comments

#29

That is one helluva t-shirt.

So the dream does run dry? I wondered ...

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wallops1964●Wakefield, West Yorkshire, England UK

Jun 8, 2015●24 Blogs●2,327 Comments

#30

A hotel sound good with all the amenities

Cheesecake yummy!

Will get Mimi to tag along with her dreamboat

sure he will do it just to please her.

Zman..... You disappoint us

now you are out of the running... I know I know! You are thinking.................. LUCKY escape!!!

BUT you don't get out if it so easy

some are wanting hotel hols instead! So we have roped you in on our reunion fun hols.... Just bring a lady along

or if not then a friend with a sense of fun

plenty weird and wonderful ones here to choose from

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KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

#31

I'm sure between you, Mimi and me we'll get Z sorted wallops.

Count me in, I hope there's a weekend London planned some time and you'll never know.

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Crazyheart38●Amman, Jordan

Jun 8, 2015●191 Blogs●5,807 Comments

#32

don't wanna be left behind..I'll tag along too...

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Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Jun 8, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

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Lee
No! Worry. Have No Fear! I Am Here.

For the right price. I can get that for you.

True Story!.....

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Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Jun 8, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

#34

I Loves RVs!
I can take a vacation in those. Without going anywhere....

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online today!

zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Jun 8, 2015●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

#35

Wallops, I only said I sold that one

it wasn't suitable for the roads round here, I bought this instead

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nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

#36

I'm selling a luxury model

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loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Jun 8, 2015●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments

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Non
That's too funny...lol...I would be shocked if you received an offer...

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nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

#38

loulou,
Its very cosy

with a good strong suspension

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Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Jun 8, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

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NonSmokie
Yuck! Put That Stuff In The Trash..

Shame On You! dude

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nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Jun 8, 2015●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

#40

Angelpepper,
I know right

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