If i'm not mistaken a blog Always needs some text so let me just put something on here to get started.. Now lets see if I can make this work...
Some people that i really care about, really love and respect.. keep telling me..
Teddy you are taking all this blog stuff way to serious. Its only for fun, so relax and have fun.
I however fail to see how hurting others, real people, real hurt, could be considered fun to anyone. People like me take stands against such behavior because i don't like to see nice people get hurt. Even if its only on a blog. The pain is felt far beyond the boundries of the net. People that still feel as if this sort of abuse is normal or should just be accepted.. are either bullies themselves, or they just lack honour in my opinion. Would you think its just innocent play if your daughter, or son or someone else that you love was abused on online fora? I doubt it. You would probably be the first to go complaining about the situation. But now that only strangers are victim of this abuse.. we should tolerate it????
Sorry I can't and won't ever do that.
Someone told me i should allow comments to be placed.. SO i won't lock them for now. But if abusive people come defending their actions here i will delete and lock again. And don't expect me to make additional comments.
I think for most of us family is the most important in our lives. So we honour our family as much as we can.
Depending on the place where we are born and raised this could be done in very different ways. In european culture, its pretty easy i guess. You stay out of trouble.. avoid breaking the law, be nice and kind to others. Try to make something of your life. This doesn't Always mean you need to become rich.. Just find enjoyment in your life, find a good wife, raise some nice kids. And you are pretty much set for life.
In some other cultures it goes allot further then that. It means you also need to uphold some strict traditions.
Especially when it comes to relations some areas would really condemn it if you sneak off to a cheap motel or such to sleep with your boyfriend. In some cultures you would be considered a slut for doing stuff like that.
But I guess not everyone knows what honour is about. Maybe i'm just Lucky that i grew up in europe.
A few months ago, I felt as if i had a few ideas to share with the world. Blogs seemed like a perfect way of doing that. Little did i realise how jealousy, and even hatred from some would be so strong.
I've asked myself these last few days, why did i start blogging? Why would i keep blogging? Why is this place so important to me?
question 1 was pretty easy to answer, I started because i have an opinion, about everything. I also have the ability to bring a new view to many topics. Not the kind of topics i've seen here so far.. but I did some alternative topics myself in the past. So might start doing those kind of stories again.
other then that i have the knowledge to read reports and studies, I know how to do research on whatever subject that would require it.. So could be helpful in debates. Debates that don't happen here either. Not anymore at least since the last debate i was in showed people don't know how to take defeat and only hold grudges because i point out their mistakes.
Question 2.. I could continue because i still got allot of things on my mind. But would Cs be the right platform to do such topics??
Question 3. We got allot of wonderful people here. I made some wonderful friends here, and i respect allot of other nice people. However allot of nice interesting people limit themselves to reading only. Making it that nasty old fashioned, sometimes even caveman, seem to be holding the upperhand on these blogs. The kind of people that lack the knowledge, or seriousness to carry a good conversation or debate. Thats a sad thing because I love good debates and critisism. But it would need a clear arguementation, and at least some basic knowledge. Something i can't find in the punks and drunks that hang out here lately.
What is the point for me to keep blogging here then? Not sure yet, But i know i don't want to give up just because of some fools. So i guess i'll just blog and keep my comments closed for the time being. and who knows what the future might bring.
I was inspired by someone's blog.. and some comment that was placed on it.
When life tries to put you down, if you meet some resistance upon your path of life. How should you deal with that?
Is it ok to forget your own morals, your own beliefs? your own values?
I don't think so. I've been in a few fights in my life... Most times those fights were fought with words, but yes on a few occassions it became physical. But the way a fight is done, is of less importance in this matter. The answer to success will Always be the same.
In order to suceed you must Always fight with honour.
Winning a fight means nothing if it makes you loose your dignity.. and keeping your dignity at losing.. could be almost as good as winning itself.
Trowing a punch is like trowing an insult at someone.. Anyone can do it. But the better fighter doesn't need to trow punches or insults. The better fighter will remain calm, block the punches or insults. He will use logic, science and common knowledge to overcome his attacker. By keeping his focus on his own values and honour, this better fighter will make his opposition destroy itself. The insults will show its true nature.. that it is only meaningless banter, a cry for attention. And with that take away all strenght from the agressor. Just like when you let the agressive one keep trowing punches but you keep blocking them.. after a while the strenght will leave his body and soon he will fall down on his knees.. recognising his superior.
It's never easy to be insulted or to be attacked.. especially if you have more then one doing the attacking.. but with a strong spirit, one is Always able to keep his honour. It truly takes a strong man to stand up against such behaviour and still remain able to keep his own honour high. Speaking for myself, I can say it took me years to perfect this state of mind for myself. But now i can say.. that no matter what traps life might set up for me.. I will never lose my honour nor my dignity because of it.
Simply because I am the better men.. And theirfor i will Always be victorious.
Well I have really started looking into planning a trip to see my mystery lady.
Think I found a good enough hotel in her area, will get my pasport in order next week.. already started filling out the papers for my visa... (anyone knows how long you usually have to wait for that one?)
So I guess the waiting game can start.. Well should check with my lady if the dates are good for her and if the hotel is where i suspect that it is.
BTW.. All advice for long trips would be very welcome. Dunno.. tips to avoid jetlag maybe? tips about how to deal with getting bored on the plain? Or maybe how to make sure my *ss doesn't hurt to much from sitting stil for so long? Anything that I might want to check before i leave?
Because it was valentine I needed to focus my attention otherwise, but i was fascinated by this story that I heard on the radio..
It's the story of Julia Pastrana, Once elected as the ugliest women on earth. She was born in 1843 and she had some rare diseases.. Because of that she looked uhmm somewhat different.. well just look for yourself..
In those days she wasn't even seen as a real human. People figured she was a crossing of a human and a orangutan. Her later to be husband bought her and put her on a freak show to travel the world with her.. Even after her death, she and her son were balsemed and preserved so Her agent (husband) could keep touring with her and keep making money with her.
She died in 1860 in Russia, her body somehow ended up in Norway.. but now after all these years.. she finally was returned to her place of birth in mexico where last tuesday, she finally had a token of acceptance to humanity.. she finally was burried as a human.. I hope she will rest in peace.
I find it very sad to see that some people here out of jealously, their own failures or their own bitterness look down on people like me that have found true love. Even if I may wonder why people like that are on a site like this... It is not for me to question their true motives.
My girl would encourage me to be understanding and compassionate towards them. Therefor I have decided I will no longer post blogs about me and my mystery girl. At least not for a while.
As we all know tomorrow is valentinesday.. being single on that day is hard.. i know i've had those before.
But believe me.. when you aren't able to be with your girl that day.. its worse.
I wish I go to her house in the morning...
To pick her up and take her for breakfast at the coast..
after that we could head out to the port.. maybe go for a bit of sailing??
and let's finish of this day with a romantic dinner in an exlusive place..
Sometimes its hard to find the right words, sometimes its impossible to describe a feeling. But at times like this, We will Always have music to help us.
I'm so in love with you honey. Thank you for making me feel this way.
I knew it was to good to be true, It couldn't happen... Why of why did i not realise this before?? I was so happy it seemed as if it would never end.. But now i realise it will.. Tomorrow it will be monday again.. no more weekend for such a long time. I wish i could stay home and relax just a few more days. Why did this weekend had to end??? Someone please tell me.. Do you also hate mondays?
I would like to wish everyone that celebrates the chinese new year a very happy new year. May the year of the snake bring you all much fortune, joy and happiness. Enjoy the holidays.
Best wishes to all
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