sad to see
I find it very sad to see that some people here out of jealously, their own failures or their own bitterness look down on people like me that have found true love. Even if I may wonder why people like that are on a site like this... It is not for me to question their true motives.My girl would encourage me to be understanding and compassionate towards them. Therefor I have decided I will no longer post blogs about me and my mystery girl. At least not for a while.
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I've gotta gut feeling that he is actually talking about me ..
.. simply cause I said exactly what you are saying up there WORD for WORD.
To me, and a ton of folks out there .. what you and I are suggesting to this fella here seems only logical .. to him .. it seems to be jealousy .. I mean .. love can indeed skew one's mind for good!
I so often wondered the same thing ..
.. the only reason I can think of is: justifying one's own folly!
What I am telling is, I thought you are smart enough to believe what is true or not. Why worry if you know that what you are doing is fine, and you do not hurt others. If others don't like it, its up to them.
George Bernard Shaw (1856 - 1950)
On the people expressing their opinion: we had this blogs and threads on the forum a good bit in the last while and people expressed their opinion before. It's the couples business, just let them be.
I know 1 Thing about love.. If you don't believe in it you'll never find it.
I've read a blog yesterday about bagage.. I would have said it a bit more tactful but I agree with the big lines... If you can't let go of the past, you aren't ready for a future.
Others... I'm not just talking about comments people make on my blog. Their are also emails and such. That's why I didn't limit myself to just the few negative comments on my blogs. I have no problem with that since they debate in the open.
I believe in love, real love that grows from spending time together, getting to know each other mentally and physically. Online love...thats a crush or infatuation and not a lot to it that will hold up to the harsh light of day IMO
Do people not have a life?
Wouldn't cross my mind to send someone an email about their private stuff, hope you'll block them and don't take it to heart.
I wrote a blog re declarations of love on the internet some weeks back. Your latest declaration is a classic example of what I was referring to.
I'm sure no-one begrudges you the feelings that you have for a certain lady,but to make blogs in connection with this is asking for comments.
The time to shout it from the mountain tops is when you have made a personal connection and moved on. Until that time it is an emotion and not reality.
I've watched a few on these blogs going on about how much in love they are and yet haven't met. Suddenly it all goes pear shaped and the love match has fizzled out. Pitiful to watch when the knives come out.
It's unnecessary publicity and can backfire.j.m.o.
But that's not because they met online. However it will happen more often online. That is because the real problem is honesty. Allot of people only show their good sides here in a relation. The moment they meet they can't hide their flaws anymore... The flaws itself might even not been a problem for the other... But the fact they were kept hidden would be. That brings feeling of betrayal and that will never support a relation.
and happy V day!
I am getting there in years, so I have a little experience in so called relationship's mistake.
Looking back, I have no regrets concerning my failed relationships. I have learned from them and I must say that they were enjoyable.
More so than have done nothing with the fear of failure. Did I learn something, heck yes. Did it make me a better person, probably not. But it gives me a better insight of what is life about rather than have kept my head in the sand.
This is my experience and everyone has is own.
I will not give advices based on my own experience as Ted is free to live his life as he see fit. It is his right to look for happiness.
Now, I'll keep quiet.
I could learn from you too. We all have stories to tell.
Just do what you want to do and feel what you want to feel. All the talk is just that, talk! And I hope it is Jenny! What a lovely young lady and a nice person like you equals a happy relationship!
"But when the days, weeks, months go by you seem to be overreacting to the perceptions of other bloggers to you. You saying this and that, (some jealous and whatsoever). Are they really or just your perceptions to those written words?"
so true
of course , everyone is entitled to their own opinion , but let nothing spoil the happpiness , you and your special lady share
Wishing you and your lady a very Happy Valentine's day
Hi Teddy
LOVE is a beautiful thing dont taint yours with the opinions of others about their own misfortune ... Keep the faith my friend ... and best wishes to you and your girl
Shay, I have send you an email explaining a few things so you can maybe understand better. I didn't want to do this public because I don't want to be accused of nagging.
Glat, I do hope you do not take any of my comments personal. They weren't directed at your person, just at your opinion, I know many will share that opinion and I respect that. I hope you could also respect my choice to disagree on this subject.
See you around.
Only, I was under the impression that love wasn't a rigid, neatly packaged thing that was identical for everyone.
All relationships end, even if that ending is the 'til death do us part thingy. What difference does it make if a relationship ends when two people meet in person, if its been a happy and enriching experience?
Hi Teddy, you're looking devilishly handsome and very well in you're new profile pic, I must say.
I don't know if jealousy is the right, or only word, either. Its maybe concern for you, cynicism, judgement, fear, whatever. Probably many things in many different people, just like love is.
Logically, those for whom getting to know each other long-distance (that's been going on for centuries) works out long-term and face to face get to claim they fell in love on the internet, and those for whom things don't work out get to claim its not possible.
Sometimes choice and commitment may play a part in relationships working out.
Enjoy!
A perfect comment as usual. I wouldn't expect anything less from you
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what `KARMA` is miss lachi talking about Teddy?
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Hi Jac