Taking the wind out of my own sails

When I’m feeling self satisfied or smug about some achievement, the greatness of which is no doubt considerably more impressive in my mind than in anyone else’s, I often find myself the victim of an unconscious part of my psychology that obviously begrudges my feeling excessive pride in myself.

As I go about my business, in a very pleased with myself state of mind, often as not, I will very painfully stub my toe on something or sharply bump my elbow or embarrassingly trip up in front of someone. It’s as if one part of me is saying to another part of me, who the fcuk do you think you are?

And, to be honest, if I was the subconscious part of me, I would do exactly the same.
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It’s ok to feel smug!

Harbaaaaaaaal handshake
MiMiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiihandshake

I agree with you, MiMi, but my subconscious begs to differ.
It's not that I want to brag, Molly, I would just like to be left in peace to quietly enjoy my self delusions.
You can't fight your tradition and heritage, Har

Just go quietly into the night
I was hoping that someone would say, yes, the same thing keeps happening to me. moping
yes, the same thing keeps happening to memoping


Feel better now?
I don't believe you, Molly. Although I'm touched that you would lie to make me feel better. hug
Dunno if copy and paste counts as a lie, but if you feel better, I am happy grin
That's just keeping you on your toes

You wouldn't want a boring relationship, would you?
What with you keeping me on my toes and my subconscious making me keep stubbing them, my feet are going to end up in a state, Molly.
I'll send you over some corn plasters
You're all heart, Molly. heart1
Only for you heart wings

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Hi Harbal, what's the saying...pride goes before the fall....

It could be the opposite also, when my doorsteps was covered in ice I slipped and fell, really hurt my pride.

I hope no one saw me. laugh

If you feel good about something you accomplished, go with it.

cheers
That's right, wen, they do say that, don't they? I've been blaming myself for it for all this time, while all along I've been the victim of an aphorism. doh
Better your dog saying that to you, rob, than the girl of your dreams.
I'm totally and openly proud of my achievements. I brag whenever I get the chance. The world has to know what incredible person it deals with. I give them lots and lots of reasons to punish me, so they slip to punish me without a reason.

But then, I'm not british. I have faults and bodily functions :D
The World needs to know about your incredible achievements and bodily functions, Tule. You should shout it from the rooftops. thumbs up
taking the wind out of ones sails, can often lead to paddling.
You can use your paddle as a sail. When wind is right.
At last, fay, a fellow sufferer. Perhaps we could be soul mates for the rest of the day. cheers
That's no use to me, Marlin. I lost my paddle up a creek a long time ago. wine
I see you've got somebody who understands your predicament

I'm happy for you
That could have been you, Molly. Just think about that.
I shall live with the regret of that for the rest of my life.
Emojis with no words, Har?

You are moving to the dark side.
I'm being driven to it, Molly. And guess who's behind the wheel. professor
I hope they have a full licence.
Well you tell me.
A full Irish, like a cholesterol-inducing breakfast.
A full Irish sounds good, Molly, if you're offering.
My breakfasts are a bit too healthy for you.

I only eat a full Irish when I stay in a hotel innocent
I obviously don't look like I have a healthy diet.
I have toast for breakfast, I only actually cook once a day. I do try to eat healthily, I don't eat rubbish.
I don't have a breakfast first thing. Just tea.

I have a home baked blueberry scone mid-morning, with more tea of course.
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