What do other guys have that I don't?
First answer that comes to mind...all of my friends here are family men or at least currently engaged in a long term relationship with someone.However, that is not the answer I am searching for. Obviously, I joined a singles website to find someone special. I joined the online dating experience, one more time, except this time I am not losing my shirt in monthly fees for the same results.
Simply because in the world outside, I am getting the same response I am getting online. NO RESPONSE, NO INTEREST, NO SUCCESS I just am spending time flirting with empty cyberspace...
Please don't give me the line that these things take time. I am not a kid. I also am not blind. I see men walk out single one day and the next day they have someone. I go out single and return single. I go to places where others have told me I will find many women who desire long-term relationships...only to return with nothing but disappointment. It don't matter if I speak first or get introduced.
Phrases like "I'm not attract you..." or "I am looking for someone older coz young men play too many games" or a few other phrases that have more to do with being rejected because of my race instead of my personality.
I don't get it. Do I have to flash tons of money just to get a little interest? So is money the only means to love?
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wrong race, wrong religion, wrong age, wrong height, wrong this, wrong that....
Left outside alone...no hope, just nothing at all.
I guess I will be one of those 50 year old men buying a woman's affection and attention just for my last few years alive.
Let's see...am too short and wrong religion if my reading skills are up to par.
oh yeah also sent flower to her last week...this is the first time she actually said anything....and yes she has been online almost daily...
Am trying new track...CS
If you really are looking for the one and a long term relationship and all that stuff AND you are as disheartened as your post suggests. I would think that you are coming across as a little desperate which is a most unattractive trait. That is just a fact.
also you may be impatient with the whole scene and if that comes across people will assume you are in a hurry and question why. I personally wouldnt continue to chat with or meet with someone who wanted to move too quickly.
I don't really read or respond to guys who have long term relationship or marriage as why they are here. That's too much pressure. How could you know? You couldn't.
Also have you asked any of the women you have been out with why? They may tell you the truth, if you sincerely want to know.
Happy hunting.
DMOUSE of you check back, why is okay for a woman to put long term or marriage in their profile but it is not okay for a man to do so.
To me that implies a double standard.
I didnt join this website to play around. There are too many local girls outside that I could just play around with.
No, am not desperate or in a hurry but some how either I am doing something completely wrong or just asking for a date doesn't seem to be unreasonable.
Yet as I said before +500 days and not counting... I figured I would be a little further than still exchanging emails...