Out of Love

Love, a strong feeling, which can take many forms.
Whether we love an animal, either our parents, or a girlfriend / boyfriend, as the case may be. Love is a beautiful and pleasant feeling in any of these cases, no matter what it is and wherever it comes from, and whatever the reason, we need it. What I want to say is that while we tend to believe that everything in love should be perfect, it is not.
Sometimes out of love / love, we are forced to do certain unpleasant things for both ourselves and the person we love, things like:
- to lie
- to raise the tone towards the loved one (I refer to some cases where you do it to protect it from certain dangers and you know that otherwise it will not listen to you)
- to hide certain things from that person (having in our mind that sometimes what you do not know cannot affect you, or in our case what he / she does not know cannot affect him / her)
and I think there are other things I forgot to mention, things we do with or without our will, more or less pleasant ...
Maybe at first glance they seem abnormal, to the things you shouldn't do when you love someone, but one of the elders said "Appearances can be deceiving". As a result, we must stop being Judges, and start being Understanders, and thinkers. We need to think / analyze first, to understand better from the perspective of the other, not just from our perspective. because sometimes there is a good explanation. Either that person is trying to protect us from something, and he does it out of love, using less pleasant methods. Either it does it, to teach us something good for us, or it does it to keep us from a potential danger (here we can take as an example a parent who raises the tone for the child or, before he or she drops 2 nails, in the electrical outlet )
Therefore Love / love can sometimes contain negative / unpleasant things, but which are sometimes necessary. Therefore patience and attention can be useful to us in discovering the truth in such situations

Ps. pay close attention though because sometimes things can still be what they seem.