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Is it matter of courage of person's differences???

Hello to everyone!
I'm wondering about one thing.. Just imagine,you've met someone special on CSS, distant relationships.. met once.. have had big chemistry.. even confess in love, met twice, the chemistry and undestanding even grow more... and after that SILENCE.. no ANY explanations.. just silence...

Is it men's cowardice...?? to say "sorry, all is over.." or what is it???
THank you in advance for you frank opinions! handshake
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jejune
jejune●Dubai, United Arab Emirates
Jan 21, 2010●21 Comments
#1
Very easy explanation. Two meetings coupled with internet romance were all that the whole affair could digest. He is not coward. He’s had enough of what could possibly come out of that connection. Everything seems so normal. Where is the problem?
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divebaby
divebaby●sannat, Gozo Malta
Jan 21, 2010●2 Comments
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i know if it was me i would be very hurt

we are all happier with explanations

however maybe the guy is ill and cant get back to you
or

worst case scenario he died

and there was no one to tell you


it can happen

but if he just stopped being in touch then he is not a nice person and you are wasting your time with him anyway
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Asstravitianka
AsstravitiankaOP●Minsk, Belarus
Jan 21, 2010●4 Blogs●8 Comments
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THank you Ladies, and the first speaker also!

He is alive, though I was thinking so and tried to reach him on mobile - no replay, but he was at work.. and alive and fine.. just said I can't speak, Ill mail you, but NO replay for 2 weeks...

It was 6 months charting, two dates during 3 months... a lot of real things.. and he seems VERY good guy!!!.. So I'm ok now, but still cant understand why no any explanations... just for may be to be polite..???
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how1e
how1e●NRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Jan 21, 2010●7 Blogs●346 Comments
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Maybe you should watch the film "He's Just Not That Into You". If a guy is interested he will make it happen, otherwise you probably won't hear from him. What's the problem with that ? Gives a pretty clear message either way, doesn't it ?
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mjames
mjames●napa, California USA
Jan 21, 2010●1 Blogs●68 Comments
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it happens all the time; first of all there is no way after meeting once that you are in love; people are so into being with someone that they romanticize and fantasize about the people they meet online.

You must have a tough skin to online date. people disappear all the time.

they do it for the short term feeling but in reality they know they can disappear without consequences. Go slow;
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Asstravitianka
AsstravitiankaOP●Minsk, Belarus
Jan 22, 2010●4 Blogs●8 Comments
#6
:-) Thank you Guys!
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Englishman55
Englishman55●Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK
Jan 22, 2010●32 Comments
#7
Women do it too. !
Basically it means it's finnished and possibly never even started, also possibly because there was someone else behind the scenes they were more interested in.

Move on
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itsallme112
itsallme112●Surrey, British Columbia Canada
Jan 23, 2010●7 Blogs●17 Comments
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Move on, it happened to me a couple of times "I love you" ...silence...blues
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Asstravitianka
AsstravitiankaOP●Minsk, Belarus
Jan 23, 2010●4 Blogs●8 Comments
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wave Thank ALL of you!!!
I know it could be a LOTS of reasons of him to stop, but I was wondering JUST about WHY don't he SAID it... I like to think people deserve to be treated as human being... not like.. you know..

Anyway, thank you! You made me feel MUCH better! kiss
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ItsColdinPitts
ItsColdinPitts●Bombay, Maharashtra India
Jan 24, 2010●19 Blogs●336 Comments
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i am trying to answer the 'why' part. many men have trouble understanding their emotional needs (i know its an over the top statement, but m also a victim of it). it is highly likely that he is married or was seeing someone, with which he was not fully content. so there could be reasons as to why he could not get into seeing u longer. and obviously he lied to you about his situation. and the best way for him for exit was to disappear. its easier for him to sit alone now and think about u and feel guilty than face the troubling situation of saying he cannot continue with you (because he would have to lie in ur face).
i think people should use internet more like a speed dating thing. quickly move the situation from internet to real world. so that the weirdness of the world of google is minimised. or else keep it to pen pals kinda thing.
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oldkatz
oldkatz●red deer, Alberta Canada
Jan 24, 2010●1 Blogs●7 Comments
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the old saying, set it free. if it comes back, its yours. if it dosent. it never was!

im not taking sides, but i have found miss communications are a big thing, and im not say that is this case.
but i had someone send me a email one day telling me to never write again and on and on. then 6 months later i get a email asking why i never wrote anymore.
seems she sent the email to the wrong person !

dont be down hearted, the sun will rise tomorrow the same as today and some day there will be someone to share it with you!
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Asstravitianka
AsstravitiankaOP●Minsk, Belarus
Jan 25, 2010●4 Blogs●8 Comments
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Thank you! thank you!
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Pixels1
Pixels1●London, Greater London, England UK
Feb 20, 2010●509 Comments
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Well first I would say maybe he was just busy but if a lot of time passed then it is a case of bad manners. Whatever his reasons it is easy to pick up the phone and say I had a great time but you know what I don't think this is for me or similar words to that effect. It costs nothing except a phone call and even some of those are free!
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Asstravitianka
AsstravitiankaOP●Minsk, Belarus
Feb 21, 2010●4 Blogs●8 Comments
#14
Thank you Ladies! :-) I'm not interesting in this matter anymore, thanks to myself and to yours kind and honest opinions. Good luck to ALL of you! :-)
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ItsColdinPitts
ItsColdinPitts●Bombay, Maharashtra India
Feb 25, 2010●19 Blogs●336 Comments
#15
Hey Nat! my mesgs are blocked from reaching u. sorry to write on ur blog. well email me when u r here next.
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