Sick of the intolerance

Oh girl.. I so agree with you! I have two kids that I raise all alone and if I do find a guy.. he wont be required to be "their daddy".. or even play a great role in their lives, at least not until and if we get married.

I have been on this site for a while now and met quite a number of people, none of whom I've gotten serious with, but all of whom seem to accept the fact that I have kids. Some of these guys are also single dads.. one or two even raising their kids themselves.. Havent met anyone yet who has a major issue with my kids.

I do agree though that some people in forums and blogs seem to have little respect for single parents.. but I dont pay them much attention..

Have a great day girl and continue doing what you doing!

I'm also a single mom , and dam proud of it... i have a very beautiful daughter, my gift from heaven...no one said being a single parent would be easy...nor is life...i have raised her a long time on my own, but thank goodness for grandparentzz... her dad will alwayzzz be her dad, we have not been together for a longtime, but she is the best gift he ever gave me, i am very grateful 2 him for that...but dont me wrong...hate the guy... but in saying that, yes some men, have preferences not 2 be with women with children..and have a sort of twisted way of looking at relations with women with children..but u know thatz ok,it really is, unforunately, they are missing out on some beautiful packages..but really, there r some really nice men out there that are very accepting and want to part of a family package....and why would they not....

cheerzz to all us wonderful, beautiful, single parents, of course including single dadzzzzzz.......


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Thanks for the great feedback ladies

Welcomes..and good luk in travelzzz....



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I understand how you feel, however? have you ever thought that many guys cant have children, so they looking to be a dad to otehr peoples, not as a real father but a father figure? I would like to congratulate you in bringing your child up on your own. I have seen how hard it is for single mums, but there are single mums out there who want a dad, for there child/children, so the child can have a dad like figure in ther lives,

Im with ya all the way babe. Do you know how many mature babes there are who are looking to be some kinda surrogate mommy??

Additionally, men who don't seek or date single moms is because some men DON'T wanna be 2nd in at all. Some of us wanna come 1st. I've had a few single moms tell me "well, my kids come first." But when I tell'em "well, my dogs come first," they get an attitude. I've had some tell me "oh well you dont ever have to do anything for my kids & I raise them myself," yet when they're birthdays came around, (to her) I was wrong for not getting them anything. These are the reasons why some men are so INTOLERANT.

totally agree with you..yes, and in saying that, i rescue pups, and my dogss do come first...but it shouldnt be about whose first but it does come down to that, unfortunately, it should be about being one and whole and no competition in a relationship...but i do hear you, i have probably said the same things that u have heard...and i have been shallow...not by intent...more resentment i think cuz of finding it hard at times to be a single mom...had alot of growing up to do...and understanding views of men and how they feel...everyone should be number one...and if u treated less than that..not a good match, anywho..in my books anyways...

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yea I'm a single mom too and just got together with a single dad of a 2 yr old. He is wonderful and it shows how responsible he is...just as us single parents are when they get the chance to care for another life. I wanted to look at these crazy blogs one last day. I'm getting off of here. I wish all the single parents the best!

honestly, all i see is bitterness, resentfulness and blame from the previous blogs..and thats ok....its good u all can say how u feel and are albe to self disclose ur past relations u have had or heard about single parents or how u feel about single parents and children.... its all ggggggggggg........i totally wish u all the best in ur endeavors......... im happy and love who i am...and thank-god for my daughter and all the beautiful men that have been in my life and my daughers...and loves to my man forever..love you babeeeeeeeee.........

smitten alwayzzzzzzzzz..

Thank you Sweet_Russian

oops blonde moment...I meant thank you Itscoldinpitts

Wow!!! Nothing but respect to all the single mothers. My sister is a single parent so I have nothing but love. As far as daddy chasing, well everybody chasing something right whether its boos..women...men (not me of course) or the all mighty dollar...Euro... Yen...or Won...LOL

"TOL," the car wreck example about whose really responsible for the damages is a perfect example. A lot of them say we're not responsible for their kids, or having to do anything but wait till birthdays come around or babysitting is needed & you're the only one standing around, or when you come over to see her & the crazy kids' father is hiding in a pair of bushes watching you with binos & you notice a red laser dot on your chest, or when he confronts you & tells you how much you won't filling his spot as a father.....its just too much!

omgggggggggg.......guess boys will be boys...