Any profile here real?

Recently invited other friends to join this site, he told me most ladies here are ghost profiles. Well, am I the only one not ghost here?! Regardless I like the guy or not, I will at least let them know they are not my types. I do not think "ghost response is the best action. Last night I saw a proposal on YouTube how they met via Instagram. Something about the post the lady sent him but he did not reply till three months later. I just recently replied a post response from a guy said he from Chicago, I did not response like one year ago. He was such a jerk! Now we are not just fighting for those scammers online also the jerks like that too. In government business we used FAR to contract and in dating world that seems no longer any rules applied. Just set up a blind date for a friend and she is going for her 3rd date with the guy now! She admitted during our last week tea party that she is ready to call him her man. I just hope people here if truly looking for someone, at least you should response. You should remove your profile if you have found someone. Even here is singles online community, we still want people can at least have heart to say yes or no. Is it?!