the friend zone
we are all adults of mature years and we may have experienced the friend zone.the friend zone...is not the same as being a friend to someone...but what it is...one person has attraction for another...but the other person only see's them as a friend...no romantic connection...no lust and no desire at all for them.
Some women will take advantage of men in their friend zone...to have the man...do favours for them...lend them money...listen to them talk about their failed relationships etc...
women...who put a man in the friend zone know... the chances are the man...still desires them and puts them on a pedestal...
yes it's manipulative to take advantage of a man...but it's also wrong for the man to stick around...pretending he can just be friends with the woman.
moral of the story...when you are put in the friend zone...move on and don't look back...move on and meet another woman.
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In other words, this is a one-way friendship?
What about when it's the other way round...the man taking advantage of the woman's kindness, using her as a sounding board to listen to all his problems and never asking her how SHE feels?
As for romance... he's attracted to her, in his own way, writes her poetry etc, and thinks she loves him for putting up with him, when in fact she doesn't!
She sees him more as a "brother"!
Should she leave her brother and this one-sided "friendship"?
I have two different men that are very good friends and we have never crossed a romantic line. However, I have had many men move on when they realized I put them in the friend zone, it has never bothered me.
Be kind to yourself Mr Charming
And better love next time baby
It's a time steal too, apart from the emotional damage done.
You can waste years in the friend zone hoping. I've done that.
"It's a trap"
It's a time steal too, apart from the emotional damage done.
You can waste years in the friend zone hoping. I've done that.
"It's a trap"