WHY HAVE I NOT FOUND MY SOULMATE YET?
I’ve been on connecting singles dating site for quite awhile and ive gotten absolutely nothingIve redid my profile numerous times
But not sure if it’s my profile or there’s just no one on
Yes im on disability
Yes I smoke
But these 2 factors should not matter
What matters is a strong connection and undivided attention
Someone please let me know what if anything I am doing wrong
Any answer will be appreciated
Comments (15)
Start fresh - say as little about yourself as possible.
Don't mention the disability
Post new photos.
Godfearing18 is a little over the top in my opinion
The fortunate deserve their fates no more than the most wretched and slighted among us.
Perhaps you are mated, fated to be alone.
Maybe you don't have a soul.
Maybe the notion that there is someone for everyone is sweet sounding poison.
Maybe, all the above and more, put more fear and pressure on the process than many people can stand.
If we lead with our fear and anxiety, we transmit that to others and they learn that they would rather not be around that and avoid the situation, conversation, etc.
If we lead with what makes us happy, energized, excited, we transmit that too and people look for that, to be around that.
Our passion for life can generate passion for our company.
Turn to and follow your own light.
Best advice, though, in your case I would change my church, if there are no younger women there, and find one with a lot more social activities. That is by FAR your best bet.to meet someone who shares your core beliefs. Ideally you'd meet them when you nip behind the hall for a cigarette, they'll be smoking there too
You have always been upfront Track..and, have worked on yourself physically and mentally.
And, I have always thought of you as one of the good guys here. But, most of all, you have always stood up for women and not had to appear as fitting in with the other guys.
I have always appreciated that from you.
Best advice, though, in your case I would change my church, if there are no younger women there, and find one with a lot more social activities. That is by FAR your best bet.to meet someone who shares your core beliefs. Ideally you'd meet them when you nip behind the hall for a cigarette, they'll be smoking there too
I know many religious people who can quote every Bible verse...and, some are the most mean-spirited people you could ever meet....
I know many religious people who can quote every Bible verse...and, some are the most mean-spirited people you could ever meet....
I was responding to the guy's post, although I notice he's changed into a girl now after comments about his photos. He's very religious. And I agree, there are some very mean-spirited dreary boring religious types about. Some are genuinely lovely people but probably would be anyway?
Start fresh - say as little about yourself as possible.
Don't mention the disability
Post new photos.
More importantly... forget about the 'soulmate' and focus on actually getting a date.