i need opinions

okayy so here is the deal..

i met this guy in here and we have been talking for about two days on the phone and seems really sweet..

he is in the army and over seas right now, he will be home moday and he wants to see me??

yes.. no... maybe??
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hey if i was you i bring pepper spary u talk with the guy on your phone if u wanna meet the guy bring a few friends just to be safe
Tread very, very, very warily with anyone involved with the military on these sites.

Cut communication now.
Ahhh...well that makes your last blog clear now.

I know all to well about rushing in, And no good ever comes from it!

jack
okayy look dude!!! im not planning on marrying the guy im not thinking he is mr right im gonna try though
why not? is he coming home for leave or to stay? You just have to use wisdom, just like you have to with anybody that you meet up with on the internet. Doesn't matter what occupation they have or how old they are; they can lie or tell the truth however they want.
Just be smart and cautious, and meet some where neutral and make sure someone knows where you're at, and who can maybe give you a call to check on you during the date, in case you need an excuse to run :) Good luck!
Well, good luck to you.

but be careful.

people wear masks and lie.
just becareful, if u go out with him go have him meet your parents first, have date with your parents exspecially this is the internet, but two dates on the phonei think it's kinda earlie for that.
Hi i met a few guys from the site who are the opposite of what they say. Then recently met someone who is genuine and we are getting on well.
If you meet him make sure it's somewhere safe, maybe take a friend with you.
If you do go let us know how you get on.
Good luck wine
Sounds dodgy! only been talking for 2 days, and your already meeting?
If you do make sure its in a public place for safety thumbs up
Bubble !

Could you please change your profile pic ? It will help a lot.
Never go into any meeting with your eyes closed, so know as much about him BEFORE you meet him. 2 days over the phone seems a little slim, but go with your instincts.
But when you use the pepper spray zackcorbin suggested, aim first, and THEN close your eyes!
Good luck! Hope it all works out well for you!
teddybear


Hi bubbles,
If you were my daughter my question to you would be, why do you want to meet people via the net when there are so many young people literally around you?

If you were my daughter my advice to you would be,take a friend and meet in a public place.Do not give away your address until you feel you can trust him with it.
We can only ever get aquainted with someone via the net or phone and usually we never really start to know them till we meet them face to face.It also takes courage to meet someone so I admire your courage.

And may I suggest a book by Iyanla Vanzant - Don't Give It Away.It was written for young women.


Please stay safe and take care.
Take heed to all the advise given above and you should be fine. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!!!
I see no reason to avoid meeting this fellow. As with all first dates in the real world, it should be a public place. Our young men in uniform are almost always very solid, good people. How you meet someone is irrelevant. How you get along when you do meet is paramount. Good luck. :)
thanks every one so much for all the advice yall will be happy to know that i used all of it!! we met in a public place and i took a friend we are now dating and im excited to see where it goes!!!
love yall bunches,
bubbles
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