Where art thou, my Soulmate?

I had been in this site since June 2010 and have not met this "special someone"...the one people call Soulmate. There are many emails I got since but the men are either too young for me or our interests do not match or the distance became a barrier (he travelling everywhere). The worst yet is when 3 came along (one after the other)... and just when all the love kept pouring in the emails and chat for 1 or 2 months, I suspected everything is a scam due to many inconsistencies and the man started asking favors or money. Heart breaking...because I fell in love...and had to let go... because it wasnt true and real...

Where are the real genuine men who love truly and seek the same true love for a committed relationship?