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I don't like movies for a first date for the reason you stated, you can't talk and can't see. You could have gone to the zoo, a park, a coffee house, a walk in the mall for pete's sake. Save the movies for when you are a little more comfortable together.
better luck next time sir and the next time make it a romantic date,a good one to remember and who knows,both might work,,goodluck
I would never do that to some fellow. Coffee, or a walk on the beach would be fine for starters, or dessert. Dinner could work, but I found out men would rather not do that, just incase the chemestry isn't there.
Best of luck on your next date. NO MOVIES! You can't talk, and then sometimes you get cell phone talkers or individuals who spoil the movie by adding there own soundtrack.
she needed a company to the cinema,
you did well you listen to Her.
That date is kinda past History, . . .so forget about it, .
If you want future advice, . .
Next little woman, . . You are gonna pick the place, . . and don't say the word date, . . . just say coffee, . .
Your gonna meet at the downtown district, at a coffee shop, that your familiar with, anywhere between 4 to 6PM, . . preferably 30 to 45 minutes, after she gets off work.
Your gonna make sure, there's a bar, and a restaurant, . .within walkin distance, . . three or four blocks max
It doesn't hurt, if the bar has pool tables, . . (your kinda in constant motion), not stuck, staring eyeball to eyeball, . . it will breaks up the tension, . . for you . .
Step #1 Back at the coffee shop, . . if you last more than 30 minutes, . . than ask if she's hungry, for some appetizers, or maybe wants to shoot pool, or maybe a drink . . .
But, . . if she leaves after the coffee, . . .then just walk down to the bar, by yourself, and get really, really, drunk, . . .ok?, . .
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Silly mare...your best off out of that before investing anymore emotions in her.
Completely agree about the cinema...my childrens father (when he was around) saw them every sat and took them to the cinema, yer great fun now and again...but how can you spend time with your kids in a cinema?How can he learn about them and their week in a cinema?
My guess is this woman might not have felt the chemistry when she first saw you in person, but didnt want to bolt on you before the date was over?
which would be worse? driving all the way out to see her and she bolts before the movie?
Either way shes going to be considered rude.
In my opinion she should have been polite and stuck around a little longer then gone home and a few days later let you down easy..
Rejection is never nice for anyone to go through..
Movie tickets are cheap..At least near me they are.
Dinner is way more expensive.
Coffee meetings are boring and like a job interview.
Next time maybe you should invest in a web cam and do your interviews that way?
Then you can both see each other before investing even gas to drive anywhere to meet.
I know it sounds cold, but in reality, U just know...It is either there or it's not. I have met two guys, really nice guys, that were everything they claim to be and moments after meeting for dinner I knew each time that this was not a connections...There was no chemistry for me and I know these to be two wonderful men that will/would make awesome partners for someone, just not me....I swear it is not a new tool or device used to bring men down, it is as it has always been.....Chemistry. It is what it is...Sighhhhh