wow! I never thought to look!

This lady swissblueeyes forced me to take a look at my profile today,most of my profiles i have on the web are just to talk to people from all backgrounds and there is no serious thought that these sites can lead to anything else.I have seen what I believed to be the very best results from dating sites and decided I wanted no part of it save a cool conversation or two.
That is why I never really cared too much about how my profile looked to others. Swissblueeyes made me realize just how important a persons profile can really be to other people mine says im looking for women 18-99 but i cant really stand being around 20 year old women for too long and gosh 99? I think its possible some guys just really dont know and their alternate reason for being on here is just too expedient to be concerened. Myself 2 reasons to talk to other people and see whats on their minds, and the other reason is simply "you never know..."Think I'll go give my profile a tweak or two.
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... sounds like swissblueeyes OPENED your EYES!!!! .. she's right ya know .. if i read a profile that says 18-99 .. and the guy is in his 40s or 50s, i immediately read into that .. this guy's a player .. just lookN to get laid .. and doesn't care what age .. as long as it's female, breathing and willing ... Eeeew .. !

maybe you'll have better luck now .. hmmm?? wave
@jodie

why not getting to know the guy first and see if indeed he is just looking to get laid?

After a certain blog here went public, people here are getting obsessed with age ..........

mumbling mumbling
Don't you think it's possible these 40 year old men who put 18-45 may not be "looking" for an 18 year old, but wouldn't discriminate based on it?

You are right that it could very well mean they want the younger the better. But it could be they are just being open about the age range.
Hi Sloopi..I dont think I ever "forced" you to do anything but thank you for the appreciation you gave me for opening your eyes.
Well to 10k it is only the people who are looking for "email/chat friends" who no one really needs to worry about what age group they are looking for..Usually the email/chat friends people put 18-99.
The ones who are looking to date, long-term, marriage, anything to do with meeting in person, ya I would advise a woman or man to look at that because that person most likely is "interested" only in that age group..From what I have noticed about every man who's ever talked to me, they seem more interested in a female that starts at the "beginning" of their desired age group. lol
So if it starts at 22 and ends at 50..Well Im more at the higher end of the scale and most likely will be bumped off the list if someone 30 or younger shows interest..
I just dont like to waste my time with uninterested men..Its just too much drama for my taste.. lol
p.s. I agree with Jode..Shes a very smart person who's been around enough to know what she is doing..cheers
swiss. you are probably right about those dynamics...just like if there was someone who was more beautiful, etc. Men complain that women go for looks/money but they discriminate just as harshly, if not more harshly.

I don't agree that men don't want women over 30, though. I have had men interested in me through every year of my life, including my current old age, lol. There are millions of women over 30 all over the world enjoying love relationships. To say they should forget about love does not correspond to the reality, even if most men desire the youngest women they can get. laugh
swissblueeyes mention my age set too, which I didn,t know I had done , recorrected, well hope it still is anyway, appreciated being made aware, no harm , just helpful advice.
Uh-Oh, I messed up again... I just looked at all of the weird profiles and decided to have some fun with it. I said that I was looking for someone that could milk the goat and use a chainsaw and an axe and she replied... now where the heck am I gonna find a goat at this time of night???

rowdyrufus doh
@jodestir
A lot of guys simply don't fill out the match box where you are supposed to mark the age you want.So the site will mark 18-99 by default.I hardly think it's a case of guys my age wanting an 18 year old.And if someone is into e-mail/penpals then why not an 18 year old?
Anyway that's what I had marked(18-99)as I was seeking penpals.But then got too many pals and changed it to 45-60.
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