What a great morning

What a great morning i had,I met a lady for coffee this morning
yes she was from Connecting singles, we had so much fun talking about all the events that going on in G.R..all the outdoor concerts,ethnic festivals.After 2 hours we got up, went outside
and talk for another hour.I do have one little problem, she wants to be more then just friends,Iam not interested in anything more then friends, like my profile says iam only interested in friendship,I have been out of the loop for 18years
how do i let her down without hurting her feelingsdunno
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Glad you had a great morning applause ..

I guess you should be honest with her and tell her that you just want a friendship and you are not interested in having more than this, even if that might hurt a bit but it would at least stop her from developing any romantic feelings and I don't think you want to wait till you get there scold
Morning wave

Just be honest and tell her the truth , i think she deserve to know what you are really feel about her wine
good morning....
yes,,just be honest with her,,and tell her to read again your profile,,and you insist that you want just friendship...
so,,why you didn't invite us for a coffee too,,in a beautiful area of Michigan?
laugh I like this state,,I was there last summer..while visiting relatives.
and also I like the Seven lakes Mall,,,it's very huge.. :)


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african_single;hello is it in the right timing or what
when the best time
manroe23; yes i agree i have no wish to lead her on, thinking its anything more
zahra450; next time your in michigan we well all meet for coffee
we have alot in this state, i happy you like it here, have you been to Frederik Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park.

laugh ok next time all of us here in CS will meet together and have coffee and tea,,,and cuppotinoo..
no I didn't see that garden park,,I will when I go again. I will ask about it.
have a goo day.

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zahra450;i know just the place for everyone to meet
have a nice dayapplause cheers
@ Terbear, I think the sooner you tell her the better, she may be a little dissapointed but I am sure she will appreciate your honestywave
Tell her you just want to be friends & that you have no romantic interest for her. Be honest don't wait for the right timing it doesn't always come. The only way you let her down & hurt her is by not telling her....better to know then not to...

I tell you something...did speed dating got 2 matches met both guys...one no way let him know that. The other maybe...but second meeting got different vibes & asked if be friends instead he said ok. Point is wasn't let down & feelings weren't hurt. .
Hi Tangerino;yeah your right were meeting again sunday afternoon
i could tell her over the phone,i think its better face to face
in person, dont feel good about itsad flower
@zweet4you; not looking forward to telling her, your right i dont want to not tell her
waaaa...glad to hear bear meet new friend. well tell her early comfort
I'm glad you are having a good weekend.
Three hours of talking sounds like you enjoyed each
other's company.
I've met a number of friends this way.
Just be honest & upfront.
Some can handle it & some can't.
You are only responsible for your own behavior.
Friendship can be a very good thing. thumbs up
Great.you made me re-confidenece in this site.? ?and made me hope that i someday will meet someone from this site in real..

she must respect your interests .its the life not a game...and should be based on mutual understanding from the outset..
Yeah not easy but leading her on will make her feel worse. I've been there yes it stings but I feel better afterwards. Hopefully she'll understand....Good luck! :) hug teddybear
oceanfaith74;iam meeting her sunday
JimNastics; really you have met others here in person
iam meeting her at 3pm sunday see how it goes
diamond987; heah thanks hope you meet someone here
I guess the best thing is to speak in general, like you can say you are on this site just to have good friends nothing more, you don't have to tell her that I want "you" as a friend and I don't want anything more with "you" as she may interpret it that you have feelings for someone else ..

Good luck in your next meeting, and I hope she will be cool with it ..
@Terbear: look forward to the cup of coffee with all CS members... cheers cheering
Everything starts as friendship.. Nobody know where will it goes... teddybear
zweet4you; yeah i know i have no wish to lead her on,i know i would feel the same way.
Good morning kubera;its always good to have friends around
Terbear. I hope you spoke to the lady about this before she read this, JMO
@Pixels1;to be honest i never thought of that,she did say she dont read the blogs or the forums much,that is really a good
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if she likes you, she very well may have read this. sad flower Hope it works out - it sounds like you have a real friend connection! Those aren't easy to find.
@calmheartseeks;we met at 3pm sunday afternoon,we both agree with each, we could enjoy each others company.We dont know what is going to happen in a year or two,We do know we enjoy each other company
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