Playing Hard to Get
I'm kind of liking this blogging lark but I always seem to blog about stuff that hits a nerve with some people so this ones about something a bit more user friendly.In Ireland girls like to be chased. Not physically of course but generally it's the man who has to do all the impressing. Not tarring them all with the same brush now, they aren't all like that. I kind of like it when a girl plays hard to get but sometimes it's refreshing when she approachs me. American and Dutch girls are the best for this. If they're interested they will make it very clear.
I just wonder why this is? Just a simple difference in attitude or culture maybe.
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'10k as a woman, I'm a better expert on women than you who aren't a woman'
who said that u? yeah, it could be that u r better than me but definately not better than a scientific study ... u r talkin speculation.. I'm talkin science here ... airtight!
Thats coz our men are HOT!
and relief yet mate?? The dancing-banana doin it's job?
ok ma'am ... unless u are willin to learn, I cannot force u ...
up to u at the end of the day ... if u wanna believe that u are a more reliable sorce than a scientist just cause u are a woman, then go ahead... do so!
oh ... when u are sick, u don't need to go to the doc... cure yourself since u are a woman ... I bet u can also walk on the sea cause u are a woman .. correct?
my apologies ... and off to sleep I am ...
Virgo, You seem tapped in and turned on. Glad there are men like you in the world!
However i dont se much change in myself over the last 20 years.
I have noticed that difference also in my place of birth, Italy. The men for the most part expect and enjoy being the one taking the lead as far as making the first move or even the second or third
I believe that it may be just a general mentality or belief in certain parts of the world that the man should approach first and the woman can choose to respond or not.
Here in the states it seems that anything goes which is not necessarily a bad thing but can cause some confusion at times.
Have been a long and intresting night at the blogs!
it depends on what city she lives in.
in a city where there are more girls than guys, the girl will be more likely to take the initiative because shes competing with soo many other girls.
look at the american charts on girls and guys in the states..for some reason the east coast has way more single girls than men.
where i live it is 50/50.
it appears the west coast is full of men so maybe i should move there? lol.. im old fashioned and prefer the man takes the initiative..in some situations though, i have..
Is there a hint of cynicism ! Well either u r in a denial about the facts of social conditioning or u have bn fortunate enough to have grown up in some wilderness outside of society's influences !
Well yeah let's play some cards !
Texas-hold-them: rather the latter. Norway is a very safe and good country in many ways. I have just been luckey.
No cynism on that one, no.
Funny fact:: an european servay showd that norwegians where the most naive and "well beliving" (dont know the engl.term) of others.
-in europe, after denmark.
Guess we are the most blue-eyed ppl in the world.
And i dont mind. Rather that then being cynical and misrable.
I'm glad u hav dropped cynicism n r having fun !