Is this the new trend ? ? ? ?

I was about to address a group of young people, this afternoon, the room was virtually filled. I had finished setting up and turned to face them. I greeted the group in a loud clear voice . . . . . . . .



. . . . . and one solitary voice returned my greeting.

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help Are our youth in danger of losing all sense of common decency, along with the basic values ? ? ?

Is this a cultural problem, restricted to South Africa, or is it a global trend?.dunno confused

If you are noticing similar trends, please tell me about it, and give an idea of why you think this is happening.thumbs up

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Coffeeminx, I could write a book about why I think this is happening, but can only confirm that it`s the same here in Norway...blues frustrated doh hug
Baltus, thanks for your feedback.'
I find this soo verry frustrated frustrated , probably because we were taught our manners first and foremost.
And if we didn't practise those, we got THE LOOK, followed by your name ONLY. this was enough of a reminder . . .

Please give an example of this poor manners, which you have noticed
@coffeeminx: Don't worry about it laugh .. I remember at college when the professor greets us nobody really cares about that, and what's worse than this I remember one professor he was so funny and always try to tell us jokes so we don't get bored during the lecture >> uh oh and guess who was the only person laughing laugh ..

That sort of behaviour is rude and not cool scold cool thumbs up
coffee, I woun`t say so much about it here... I have just seen a lack of respect fore teachers, elder, parent`s and also property in general, from many young peoples...cool wine
Perhaps they were just afraid to speak out of respect. dunno
Coffee mix, this is acceptable what the students did, and in my opinion your expectation was not realistic.

You were about to give an address. You were not there to meet anyone or to socialize with anyone.

The students went there to hear your address, not to get an insight knowledge of you as a person, and vice versa.

Greetings are returned in social situations only, or in mass-oppressive societies. I do remember the November Seventh festivities in which the General Marshall Marsalko Bela told forty-eight thousand people, "Greeteings, comrades," and forty-eight thousand adults, of all ages and backgrounds, replied in unison, "greetings, comrade Marsalko."

This is not normal.

In youth-situations, the situation is not the same as in kindergarten classes or in grade school. You don't go in for the greeting.

At least that has been my experience, attending lectures on two continents and giving lectures to university kids in North America.



African Woman: A student, like any other human being, will laugh at what he or she finds funny. If they did not laugh at the professor's efforts at humour, then they can't be faulted for "not being nice and appreciative". In fact, if they laughed, then the school spirit could have been faulted for being "tyrannical and oppressive". In my opinion.
Maybe the one child was elected to speak on the majorities behalf.
@Yaaks
laugh Interesting option . . . never gave that a thought, certainly has the "feel better now" effect
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