I Wish He'd Stop!

Im So Depressed At The Moment. blues

I Guess no one wants to hear about it, but im going to talk about it anyway because i dunno how much i can take at the second. Today is easter monday..My brother went out drinking yesterday and came back really drunk and started calling me names and stuff...He called me gay loads of times and pulled my hair when i was playing guitar hero's.

Then i heard him crying, barfing too...I tried my best to ignore it but i should be used to it by now...Theres no denying he drinks too much and i can't imagine its doing him any good, He also brought his girlfriend back to stay with him too...

There are times where i just want to sit him down and tell him that i love him to bits and that he drinks too much and that i'd hate to loose him to something like Liver failure or whatever you get when you drink eccesively...

Their in the living room now, my mums probably having a go at his girlfriend because the two have been on and off for a while..=/..Or Shes either having a go at him for being drunk and insulting his girlfriend or somethin'...Im confused.

It makes me cry so much sometimes...I just want him to stop drinking or go easy when he does, but then again there isn't much chance of a 21 year old listening to his 18 year old sister now is there?

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Thank you so much for reading this, it feels good to get it out =)

Much Love

-Danielle
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comfort Tough spot.
At 21.. this is nothing uncommon..He will grow out of it,, but the biggest thing is not to drive in this state. Everyone around him need to let him know that when he is drunk.. just call and someome will pick him up.
May not like getting a drunk call at 3:00am.. but it is better than him getting killed or killing soneone else.

Also- if you expect replies here.......
You should be using the Forums,
Blogs are not a chitchat area
Hey Danielle, what's good!

I'm sorry about your older brother beinging a mean drunk. I don't think anybody can stop your brother from drinking, but your mom or somebody should stop your brother from hurting you.

If I was to hit my lil sister I'd get beat down by my dad, and kicked out of the house by my mom. I'd be homeless if I was to start too much trouble of anykind. I know this because that's what happend when I faught with my siblings, and I came back with much more respect, and tolerence for them. My lil sis can makes me mad sometimes but out of respect for her being a female I wouldn't hit her even if I could get by with it.

Your brother needs to realize that your a female and have that kind of respect for you, and maybe y'all should show him some tough love and knock some sense into him.

My best friend Jeremy has a drinking problem, he used to get drunk to have fun and party. But now Jeremy drinks to forget about his problems and mainly the loneliness he feels when he thinks about his ex girlfriend. That was his first real relationship, and I'm dealing with the loss of my first relationship too so I can understand. The only difference is I married my girl and yet I'm the one dealing with it sober...lol

Again, I'm sorry about what you and your brother are going through and maybe he should get some help.

Much Love

-Patrick
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