Sick Of Being In A Relationship..
I know people are probably bored of me complaining about things, and im sorry if your one of them :)Just lately, ive been so bored of being in a relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months, sure we've had so many tiffs (arguements) and stuff and i have split up with him for a brief amount of time but i always go back to him and im never really that firm and say no. At the worst of times i actually dread seeing him, like this weekend i dont know if thats normal not wanting to see your boyfriend every weekend.
Maybe, theres just too much soppy sh&t in the relationship. He always says love you and im usually qute hesistant to say that until i really mean it. If we did break up i think id just miss him spoiling me as he buys me whatever i want, i know people are going to see me as being with him for materialistic reasons but that wasn't the case.
I know i was so happy when i finally got a boyfriend, but i just feel like after a month or so the novelty of being taken wears off a lot. I know we we're suppost to be sorting a flat out together but i dont think i want to get a flat with him let alone be in a relationshop with him.
I like relationships, but when you've had so many people in your life it just warps you a lot. Like i still miss my ex and we split up 7 months ago and i just cant stop thinking about him, i have a crush on an emo guy who strings me a long none stop and life seems pretty boring from there on. I think if this relationship doesn't work out i want have another one until im 21 (next year lol
)Im so stuck for somewhere to turn, so i decided to turn to the people of CS..Since usually people have some pretty constructive thing to say =]
Thank you again for listening to my drawl (=
Much Love
- Brunetteteen18
Comments (10)
"but when you've had so many people in your life it just warps you a lot". how old are you ? 20. you havent even started and you're talking like one of the sad people on here who is 50 something.
wake up, take control of your life and think about what you want. then put it into action.
I was in a relationship for 7 yrs and eventually broke it off cos i knew it wasn't right.. staying in a relationship out of fear of being alone is not a reason to stay in 1 at all, if anything it is the reason to not stay in it anymore.
U should be missing him the moment u turn around and leave, not dreading to see him next weekend!
If u feel there is something there that might be worth working for then talk it out with him and tell him what ur not happy about (like things have gotten too routine or that he doesn't give u the right attention etc.) but if u are so sure about how u feel then stop stringin him along like that emo guy is doing to u.. its not nice.. and forget thinking about ur ex, just remember that u broke up for a reason!
Now if ur so sure about how u feel about ur boyfriend, then break it off with him clean, if u can't say no to him then just don't pick up his calls or respond to his msgs therefore u wont nee dto say anything to him at all, he'll get the message after a month or 2 and he'll learn to thank u in years to come!
Meanwhile enjoy ur young single life as u certainly seem to prefer to be and when someone right comes along u will kno cos everything will feel more natural and seem like less of a drag and more to the point u will kno what it feels like to b happy and content with ur partner!
Good luck!
When you got a boyfriend?
Don't you mean, "when I met him"? You know, that one specific guy?
When you say it the way you do, it sure makes it look like you're treating him like an object.
And then, of course, there's pretty much everything else you said..