cookingfool5057
cookingfool5057
Oct 2011
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I did it again

So what does honesty get you? Hurt feelings. I was chatting with a nice person, I tols her about my speech issues at first she said she didn’t care and then...she stopped chatting with me. If it bothers you TELL ME! I have the right to know. I went out of my to be honest and I screwed it up. I am sorry I am not perfect. It makes me wonder what is really wrong with me, and why I was honest. Is honesty really the best policy? I am just about ready to give up on dating period.
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maryrachelle
maryrachelle●Bathurst, New Brunswick Canada
Oct 26, 2011●2 Blogs●507 Comments
#1
Maybe she really didn't care about your speech issues and it was something else that you said that turned her away from you?

Maybe she was dating another guy and they both decided that they wanted it to become an exclusive relationship?


Maybe she died?dunno


I could maybe until the cows come home but I can only guess at her reasons.Don't automatically assume it is because of your speech impediment.sad flower
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baltus67
baltus67●Kolkata, West Bengal India
Oct 26, 2011●7 Blogs●811 Comments
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I`ve said it before, and I`ll repet myself... Honesty often have a high price... The reward is that you will be stronger after a while, if it doesn`t kill you in the proccess...
Just have faith in youre self, coocking!
She wasen`t the right one... Next might be?
cool wine cheers
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takemetofrance
takemetofrance●Vicenza Italy, Manama Bahrain
Oct 26, 2011●63 Blogs●844 Comments
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I dated a guy who had a speech impediment, he was the best lover................
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summertan
summertan●Medan, Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia
Oct 26, 2011●51 Blogs●926 Comments
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I'm sorry about that, cookingfool. Truth often so expensive. But at least you know that maybe she is not the right one. I know there is someone out there who will accept you who you are.

Don't lose hope.

hug
Summer
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BlueOcean2011
BlueOcean2011●County Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Oct 26, 2011●179 Comments
#5
That was very shallow of her.Better luck next time.
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Oct 26, 2011●1,442 Comments
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BlueOcean2011 . applause
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summertan
summertan●Medan, Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia
Oct 26, 2011●51 Blogs●926 Comments
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It's not true that all women looking for perfect men. We know ourselves are not perfect either. But we are looking for a man who suit our criteria. I guess every women have their checklist. I believe no one put "perfect man" as their criteria.

You just not yet met her. Be patient. Stay positive and I hope you the best.

comfort
Summer
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donkeyshowdiva
donkeyshowdiva●Quakertown, Pennsylvania USA
Oct 27, 2011●1 Blogs●9 Comments
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you sound like you need to join a speech issues support group, hang out with all your peers for a while and you will end up just fine.
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fieldworking
fieldworking●Henderson, Nevada USA
Oct 28, 2011●20 Blogs●67 Comments
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I understand where you are coming from. It is frustrating. I tend to be a little too blunt with people and it often ends with someone having their feelings hurt. I don't mean to upset anyone but I'm not the most tactful person out there. Sometimes, it is really exhausting to be tactful. You know, when a friend tells me that they have to buy a new outfit for an event and they want my opinion, I ask them, "Do you want to hear what you want to hear or do you really want to know what I think?" I ask them that because I'll tell them what they want to hear if that's what they want. I've always been told that they want my opinion...cause they know I'll tell like it is.
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