About my forum post

Hi everyone. Last wek I posted in the forums and I asked a question if people would date a person who stutters. I kind of knew what would happen. At first some people were caring, then it became a big joke. People typing in a stutter. I got upset, I ask people to put themselves in my shoes and show a little respect. I am glad that some people thought it was funny, but we are not a bunch of kids, we are all grown ups. I have a hard enough time trying to find someone without people thinking it's funny. Speech does not affect any other area if you what I mean, for some people who think my equipment might be faulty. I want to apologize for what I might have said, but I would appreciate a little respect, I am very sensitive about this. If you have nothing nice to say, please don't post it. Thanks
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cooking,

I have found that people are usually empathetic to a certain point but for the most part they are concerned about what is in it for them. Unfortunately in today's world self absorption has destroyed any hope for relationships to progress to a level of deep trust and complete acceptance.

I wish you the bestcool
Hello Cooking,

I once dated a man that stuttered. I had no problem understanding him and when he slowed down, he had minimal issues. Also when he sang he had no problem. I think it was the rythum that helped him. What happened to us, he found someone else and married her. But, I still remember him with fondness.

There are insinsitive people in this world, they try to make a joke of everything. I am sorry that you ran into a few here. Take heart, most of the people here are not too horrible to one another.
I guess there are lots of adults who haven't grown up yet thus I may recommend not to take those person into account ... respect, appreciation, admiration are certainly very important not only for any kind of relationship but also friendship.
Good you post this blog, cooking ...
@cookingfool5057: I apologize on behalf of those who were inconsiderate and immature .. If we look thoroughly we will find that everyone with no exception has some issues whether they are mentally physically or whatever it might be ..

There is nothing wrong or to be sensitive about hug I know I would not have a problem if I dated someone who stutters because I know they are 100% normal people thumbs up ..

Have a great day/night wave ..
applause applause Some people have to laugh or ridicule others to empower themselves. They're mental stutterers maybe. Gentlemen they're not, as real men are Gentle. If you can't be constuctive then don't be destructive ! You seem a genuine guy & there's some nice ladt out there & you'll find her, good on you for your truth !cheering
I don't see stuttering as being any kind of issue whatsoever. Unfortunately, as kids, we would make fun of others who were "not like us", but as you mature you come to understand and accept other peoples impediments. Even when dealing with personality disorders (sociopath/narsissis) it's hard not to have empathy when you understand the challenging conflict these people have to deal with.

I would think that has you two get deeper into a relationship and the comfort level increases the stuttering goes into hibernation or it's not even noticed by you. It's like a foreign language, you try your best to understand . best of luck to you and yours....
Ah, I just read your origional blog. I didn't realize you were talking about yourself here. Everything I stated above I stick by, except the you and yours piece.
cookingfool5057
A few of my friends from the past had this problem... And I only have a few friends! Head up, and never let anyone get to you about this!cheers
Thanks everyone! I am glad to see that not all people on this site are kids. It means a lot to me. You made my day much better. Thanks.
I would.
I did date a deaf girl in highschool.
If someone wouldn't don't sweat it because someone will and that's the one you should concern yourself with.

I still remember how she glowed when I asked her out.
Just a question; was that here at blogs thay made fun about u, or was it at the forums?

Just struck me u know..when u write u write perfectly.
Thay cant hear u and still thay get the ide to mock
it cos u were open enough to tell..hmm...
Well, guess such people must be very bored and boring!

Remb its an audience here. Those azzes are bing watched.
Thay must have given up finding a partner. Lets pray for them. lol

Cheers mate.
If i was gonna friendly mock you it be about your cooking abileties laugh
Btw, im the norwegian reining frozen pizza eater 3rd yer in a row head banger

cheers
I did post a blog that it titled "About Me" But I did post in a forum, "Would you date a person who stutters?" I don't mind being picked on, I take well, but when you tease me about my speech and how I can't say complete sentences, then I will have a word with who ever it might be. It's just sad to see how people act like kids on a playground. It's those people who have low self-esteem issues, not me.
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