Do most men prefer smaller/thinner woman or larger

I think I know the answer to this question but thought I would post a blog anyway.

I am a full figured lady, not fat just not small and petite either. If I could change myself which I have many times I would choose smaller and thinner, taller, lighter colored hair and the body of an average sized model.

In reality I can't change my body type but can of course work on things I can change like my weight. I will never look like a model at age 50 but can try and be the best I can be.

I posted this blog as I got a rude comment from a guy on another site who was very disrespectful and rude of my larger size.

Makes me wonder if there are any genuine men out there.
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Men like feminine women! At least the men I consider MEN! wink wave
Saskia! Wonderful as always! laugh thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Sheeesh! At my age, at long as she's human and breathing! lol grin Yeah!
NJGirl wave

conversing It seems a bit unfair, that, in defending your right to refuse membership to an unfortunate stereotype of a woman, you, pretend, genertalizar on the genuineness of the thoughts and actions of all male members of CS.


tip hat bouquet
laugh rolling on the floor laughing Robrt, you have to close the triangle then, including the brain, too! Although do you really need it, you have reached full harmony!
Sorry about the bit rude joke, I know you have sense of humor! kiss
That guy didn't know what he was saying. I have met many women that are as you describe yourself, my daughter included, that are "full figured" and they have been absolute dolls, my daughter included. Just ignore those kind of comments because you are just fine.
sell what u've got to the right target group
i mean for every each of us ,men and women there r those who like and want us. Beauty, contrary to what media are trying to convince us,is subjective and unique to each one
everybody has her/his admirers , the target group i was talking about.yes most ppl r attracted from the ones ,who r close to the standards ,but there r still plenty ,who r looking for the real beauty .wine bouquet
Agreeing with Ed and Blue, I will add that I have heard the saying: Only conoisseurs (appreciators) can value a big and beautiful woman!

But NJGirl, you are far from fat! I don't see any problem about you except your confidence! hug wave
the real beauty is the inner beauty...
Thanks Ariel and to the others for your positive comments

When we age and our bodies change we don't always like what we see in the mirror.

At 20 I was thinner and pursuing modeling,and acting. At 30 I was heavier then thinner again and in college.

Now 50 heavier,and hopefully wiser but don't like the changes age brings with it. You are all correct in your comments. There are those that would like me for who I am and others than prefer the thinner, taller type. I prefer the thinner me and of course younger but can't turn back the hands of time.
I don't care,i just like to dig in rolling on the floor laughing grin
Hey beautiful! add somthing more perfect & a bit tight on that nice full feature..no doubts every jaws will be opened for eternity. rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing
NJ ::wave: Of course they are here !! cheering many than you would believe. flirty So do not stress yourself, if tinny, lighter or whatever. Everybody finds her/ his match. With honest mind and good heart you are match from heaven for the genuine man. comfort cheering
Lazly: "they"... it sounds to me as we re discussing some rare animal species! And "they" are only the good old men! laugh rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
@. But they are part from the human species.laugh hug
Blue so you and Parti are rare animal species? Called Blomo Partiens?? confused wow wow wow wow laugh hug

Lazly, hopefully! laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Now Firas listen:

What get your atencion when you walk on the streed?? and in the front of your eyes are 2 beautiful womans they are walking. Now give me the answear what you look first ther back? laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Firaz, cowboy, hormone storm ?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
PrimaveraPrague

Yes we are macho guys banana cheering flex smoking hug
Ok Firas, nice lyrics: Rolling roling..wine.. and rolling laugh rolling on the floor laughing grin
And Mumma Bears Poridge was just Right!!!laugh laugh Not too Hot... Not too Cold!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing applause
comfort hug
Hafiz

Thank you,that was very nice of you for the uplifting comment.

So many nice comments but the guys from NJ aren't as nice. It must be a NJ thing.
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