Was she mean?

Hi guys. This is a real story. My cousin was on a page similar to CS. She was 25 years old when she met a guy from Europe. First they became close friends,sending e mails and chatting. Then they started with long video chats on Skype. Everything was fine. He was kind and intelligent and of course they were in love. After 6 months, he made "the proposal" and just like that they were engaged. She was happy and excited and he was willing to make a long distance trip to meet her and her relatives here in Peru.
So she went to the aiport and saw him on the stairs. Then she realized he was shorter than her and had acne scars and she decided to go away without saying anything. When she told me this, four months ago, I couldnt avoid to be dissapointed of her leaving a guy alone for not being perfect. So you need to be perfect to deserve love? or we are so confused with all those stereotypes of beauty that we miss the most important is inside us. Its clear to me she wasnt in love but I think she could have said something.
What do you think?
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wasnt his height stated on his profile? and i know on skype the cam isnt always clear but she couldve seen his pic @ least? i think she was stupid and vain! tell her i said that! there so much more worse things in the world than acne scars
morg now dont be crude! dont go below the beltlaugh
@morgen
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dont ask the obvious. the girl was just panicked and i think she neber really felt much on the guy. she sounds a shallow girl too.sorry bloggger for ur cousin , but u dont leave alone at the airport ,someone who traveled from soooooooo far to meet u.doh mumbling wave
Well....obviously they didn't know eachother well enough to be getting engaged - that is a big step to be taking with someone you've never met. Six months of dating in person is not long enough to get engaged, let alone dating online for that long. In six months time the basics were not discussed? Including the obvious appearance? Since appearance is the first thing noticed when you meet someone for the first time, (and being online there are some limitations in that area) shouldnt it be at least discussed first? But eh what do I know?dunno doh
this is so sad & frustrating for the guy. what is wrong with the height & scars thing? Guys we must know that there are some ppl out there who were born abnormal without limbs or other unsual elongated body features so on. I know she might have had some kinda reaction when she saw the guy but it would be great if she just meet him and see what could be good of him afterwards.
Perhaps a lower agelimit of 30 at online dating would be the way to go... i mean without the parents concent. handshake
Yea, i propose a certificat for all under 30 with parents signature and government offical stamps on it. professor thumbs up
Thanks Guys!!

Cherrie I said the same to her. She told me she had pictures. I realized she was a shallow and selfish silly girl.

Morge Yes they were engaged and I didnt ask details about their intimacy.

Blue I agree. She was inmature. She should have explained how she felt.

Red I guess 6 months are ok if you are in a mature relationship. You are right they could have talked about that before but when your are really in love you like that person not just its image.

Phsylo I agree she miss the chance to know the real human being who made her feel that was true love.

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That sounds like something most people would expect out of a guy. rolling on the floor laughing

Not too nice to do, poor guy must have been crushed!blues
Personally i think he escaped a few embarrecing weeks,
and returned a wiser man too (woulden't take much in his case thou.. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing )
Hope his not too bitter now. cool
I think she's not only mean; she's also stupid and very selfish! Otherwise, this's one of the internet relationship hassles.sad
I am not looking for perfection and if a man were willing to travel so far to meet i would have the good grace to meet him.mumbling
crying crying crying crying crying crying crying
And I'm not talking to her on line Again EVER!!!very mad
hug wine
I think she is one of those girls that are trying to save themselves from poverty and changed her mind the last minute.
She should be careful, she may get the same in return.
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