WHO THINKS OF THE ELDERLY THESE DAYS ?

WHY IS THE WORLD SO UNFRIENDLY FOR OLD PEOPLE ?
I love it when I see old people getting out and about having fun and doing stuff . This week a friend of my Italian girlfriends and I hosted the visit of an 85 year old English gentleman by the name of Mr Prichard. His interest is in visiting great gardens , so we visited a few over three days in the North of Italy . We all had a great time together and its a wonderful thing to be with elderly people who have such wisdom and fun in them still , that they can see life through such different eyes as our own , and have even enough grace to pardon those who have a lack of appreciation of the elderly as if they themselves will never be old.
I had my old father with me till he died at the age of 85 and never considered living without him. He was such fun and never a burden . I could also see how difficult it would be for him to manage alone.
They cannot walk well , so how do they get to the shops to buy food? These days they have a service where everything can be delivered , how wonderful …..depending where you live of course…. They cannot drive anymore , so independence is completely cut off . In my village where I used to live in Australia there was the granny bus twice a week for the oldies to get together and tot off to town for a bit of shopping. I see poor old people struggling to get on and off the bus , young people not thinking to stand up for them even to offer them a seat.
The government also does not cater well enough for this group of a growing part of the population. I mean whats with all the small print everywhere? Small print should be banned on everything. Do you think an older person can read the small print on the train ticket that says you cannot use a ticket if it has been validated more than 6 hours before ? How easy do you imagine it to be for an elderly person to haul his suitcase up a flight of stairs to a train platform ? How hard to get on the train with the steps up so high ? What about cyclists in most european cities these days , scaring the wits out of old people as they whizz past so close not imagining the effect it could have on someone with a dicky heart? What about mobile phones , can they tell the difference between a 6 and an 8 on an I phone? I know I can't anymore.
Why don't people think about us , when we get older in just the small things ? Its so hard for the elderly to go out .
It seems most services these days are aimed for young consumers , no one thinks about the elderly . saskia
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Hi Saskia.Here it's traditional to look after elder parents and show respect them.Of course there r some exeptions as not everyone follow it,but majority do,which is good side of our tradition.And if u ever use public transport here,dont be surprised if young people offer their seats to u.Its also strong tradition here that young men offer their seats to women and elder people.grin wine
Dear Saskia, Sorry to be the fly in your coffee but here in Puerto Rico they still have a reverence for there grandparents . This translates into many emenities for the elderly . Things like special lines for the elderly and discount prices at supermarkets and movie houses as well as resturants .

You can even get a discount on your utilities and busses are only a quarter ( 25 cents ) . I don't need to live in one of the elderly complexes but if I did I couldn't do better than here . OK, I'm spoiled on this Island but can you blame me !

The Evil Wievil . . . devil devil
Hi Frankie,seems like Puerto Rico is really nice place to live.How about safety?Is it safe place ?And whats the house prises in there,lets say 3 bedroom apartment,or with a garden?Just interested.handshake wine
Good blog,worthwhile subject. If it wasn't for the contributions of our elderly,we would not have what we have now.
Some of the aged do experience a lack of respect. They are weaker and are prey to bullies. Also some of them are not wealthy living on small pensions.
In many societies money gets you respect,lack of money gets you the opposite.
Some consider the elderly a burden on our healthcare and taxes. Some forget that the elderly rolled up their sleeves and with sore backs,built up the institutions we now have.
I like old people,they have lots of life experience that I can draw from. When I have an issue,I'll go to someone older and wiser than I am for the answers.
I do!!thumbs up Usually, like once a week
or so, I help out an elderly person...Maybe drive em' to grocery store, help chop wood, crush aluminum cans,help dig up oninons,
or peas from garden, drive elderly person to motor vehicle dept. and more...Sometimes just visit ea/ & talk about fishing, the oudoors, fishing books, etc...The main point is to get involved
and be helpful by showing that a person cares...

Charles
The drums, fishing books,wine hug
Leo hello azizam , thanks for being here. I like it when societies take care f their elderly. Its in my opinion the way it should be. I would hate to die alone. saskia fatima
Frankie sounds like PR is a good place for old folks then . saskia
I totally agree with you Gordie, you make some nice points there , saskia
sandal man good on you and buety too .... helping old folks is an important thing to do , I always find them unthreatening and most pleasant company. saskia
Saskia,as one of the most beautiful women on the site,you need not concern yourself with ever dieing alone.smitten
Saskia, They put up with me so they could put up with anyone ! . . laugh laugh laugh

The evil Wievil . . . devil devil
Sas... If someone offered me a Seat on a Bus, I'de push them back in it and say .."Dont be Cheeky!!!"rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Thats tragic roxanna .....for that to happen to your granny . my daughter said to me once , mum , I will never leave you alone when you are old so that you have to take a bus. ..... i don't know what she meant , really , but it sounds like a good offer to me. I love my daughter and I loved my old dad. My dad used to get on the bus to meet other people , he was not really going anywhere. He just wanted to go for a ride and say hello to friends he knew would be on the bus. saskia
Part of the problem, I think, is that we live in a youth-centric society, and the kids know it. Kids disrespect their own parents, let alone other adults. My former neighbors had a daughter, and one day, the mother must have said something to the daughter. I heard the daughter angrily say, "Mother!" I'm guessing the mother had said "No" to the daughter.

Also, I've noticed young people saying the old folks should just get out of the way so the young can have their jobs, future Social Security and Medicare, etc. Many old folks are just shuffled off to the old folks home, and many languish without any visitors at all. What a way to treat the elderly, and I have a feeling that there is a coming karma to beat all karmas!

I hate to say it, but in Oregon, there is a lab that has a virus that kills only the elderly. I don't know how that is possible, but that's what they say. Yes, I would say the elderly are not respected like they used to be, and it's sad.
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