WHY IS YOUR HATE OF ME SO STRONG ?
Why do you constantly vilify me ? What have I done to you?Why do you call me names and make such nasty comments about me at every turn ?
What have I done to you apart from disagree with you? That has you be so nasty to me ?
Why do you call me names as you do ?
Do you want peace with me or is it your intention to continue till I am destroyed completely?
Do you want peace with yourself ? Or are you happy in this role you play here?
I wonder about the man you love so much, he seems like such a decent and intelligent man , i wonder if you value his respect ? I wonder if he is supporting you with your constant vilification and name calling of me?
Do you think it is creating a good environment here with this constant name calling by you?
Am I hated because I am friends of a popular blogger here , someone else you do not like?
Should I also take a dislike of your friend because he is associated with you ?
Why am i being singled out to be victimised by you here ?
I have been famously called by you .......a transvestite , a lesbian , a fake, a liar , a drama queen ,
a BULLY , and many more names none of which are complimentary.
You once pointed out the rules to me , but you take it apon yourself to continue with this harassment of me at every chance ... hardly following the rules ...
Can this stop ? What can I do to make it stop ?
Can I offer the hand of peace to you first ?
Or is it your intention to destroy me in anyway you can ?
You know who you are ....... you know where I am ... please get back to me , because you are taking it way too far now to the point you are making a fool of yourself , although obviously you do not see it that way .
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Good Luck Sas!!
Tell me who she is, and Ill find her star sign. Im always interested in who gets on with who.
Are you capricorn by any chance TakeMe to France. Im not sure who capricorns constant enemies are in life though. would like to find out, cause Ive met two other capricorns who always say to me, pisces is their blockage. If that is the case, we could make a wonderful team. (jokes) Although, I do change slightly then get on with them, but aquarians are my total blokage at the banks. they will do anything to stop me and not help me.
They always play policeman, saying these are the rules, and always telling people they must abide by the rules, but behind the scenes they definitely dont play by the rules they hand out.
I most cases this is a thinly veiled jealosy of a certain few and anyone that does not follow the anamosity displayed is also by association guilty . Well I guess that is human nature but the really funny thing ( and revealing also ) is when it reverses and comes back at them . They then cry all manor of injustices have been placed on them and the unfairness and crulty they have to endure .
Always remember that what you sow so shall you reap . OK, Sorry to put it in biblical terms ( we have enough of them already ) but it is good advice .
I would say that you have had time to reflect on things during your short hiatus.
I have seen you compliment Teddy on a blog of his and now this.
I trust that you sincerely do wish for peace between you and the other person.
I commend you for the strength of character you have displayed and i for one hope that the person you are writing about accepts your hand of peace and that maybe the both of you could even end up being friends. (doubtful, but hopeful)
If i may,
I have noticed that you do come out with wise words at times,and offer sound advice at other times, and yes you have been around awhile and know people here better or at least longer than some.
BUT what you have just said only goes to inflame the situation,
Saskai has written this as an open letter to offer a hand of peace, there is in my opinion no need for the past to be dragged up by you, me or others.
Saskia is not entirely flawless here either, but i will not stand by and watch others try and inflame things further.
I dont think you are deliberately doing that, but the words you have chosen make it seem as if only one is at fault, where even blind Freddy could see many are at fault.
Maybe we should let those sort it out without interference from us.
And maybe in private would be better.
As i say, just my opinion.
I don't think you can be destroyed. I know it may be hard but just ignore them because you have many people here that love you and I am one of them.
If someone is reminded of this activity or it seems to be placed at the feet of a suspected person, then it only serves to the validity of the statement . My intentions where to inform in basic terms the folly of errent behaviour and it's subsequence stigma . I'm also not foolish enough to belive that everyone that comes here will act in a mature manor it merely is to inform those that do not to be aware of judgement of others .
As a student of human behavoiur ( only a student obsever ) I have seen many constants in this indeavor . One of the most repeatable is the fact that people never figh harder or argue more than when they are in the wrong . There is just something about taking a step backwards that is incomprehensable in the human ego . As I have said so many times, your true self comes here when you post . It is something that no person can avoid .
PS : yes we are all guilty of things at times but at least you are being more socialble about it ( like a popular member that also seems to be the target of so much unjust anamosity ) . In the Appache Indian tribe a persons strength and standing was measured by the enemy's he posessed . If you actually apply that logic to here it will reveal another dimention to your understanding of things .
I see accusations made by you to this other person.. saying how she harresses you, calls you names, how she tries to destroy you.
But i don't see where you aknowledge doing those very same things to her. instead you try and make it seem as if you are the only victim and that you have done nothing wrong. And then you say you reach out a hand? I just say you are placing another sneaky attack and allot of people will be fooled by you. So congrats on that. But unless you are willing to accept your own mistakes and admit to them you will never get peace.
This shouldn't be seen as an assault of me towards you.. just an observation that could benefit all of us.
So best wishes to you.
The smart blogger you talk of may fool some bloggers here, but there are those that knows his writings well and he can disguise them all he likes, but some here know who it is behind the façade.
Saying he likes to trick people doesnt present as being clever, he has a talent and maybe he should use it for good and not evil.
One must also ask why does he put himself in a position where people want to report him.
But that is not our concern just now.
No one should be judged by the company they keep but only by the actions they take whilst in that company.
You and i have not had harsh words and i hope we dont, and i know you are not judging me by the friends i have as i dont with you.
Maybe, the time has come for all of this to be buried and put in a time capsule to be opened on the 30th November 2062.......just a thought....
The person in question disliked me from long before you hit centre stage Teddy winkles ... but she became your friend when she saw the opportunity to attack me .
I think you did not see the full picture here Teddy , and don't know the full story either .
SO maybe it is best to go and mind your own sweet blogs , i say that with respect ... you take care of your blogs and I will take care of mine .. You do not respect my rights but nonetheless its not your fault I know you do not understand the full story here ...........I will however attempt to respect your rights always . I only mentioned this because it is in fact the very thing that you said that was the catalyst which had me in stitches of laughter that brought me back to the blogs . with you dominating them it was becoming more boring than watching paint dry .
Thats just my honest opinion teddy , but i did enjoy your history of belgium blogs they were great i think you could do well with being a travel agent , they were delightful and I mean that .
I think I am actually growing more fond of you with each day as it passes , and since I saw your belgium blogs I now have a modicum of respect for you. So things are looking up .
Where was i yes , see teddy as much as you and your partner friend have tried to take me out , , I enjoyed it the most when you were """honoured """to expose me for the fake i am ... because that one statement actually not only told me, but everyone else here who you really are . That was the classic ...and because you said it yourself please let me make good use of it quoting it again and again ... I know this is a statement you are proud of and an act you are very proud of .
But always remember dear man ,
THIS IS A PLACE TO BLOG TEDDY .. IT IS NOT REAL LIFE .....
ALL PEOPLE ARE FAKE IN CYBER SPACE , AND THATS THE BEAUTY .... no one really knows who anyone is .
Some of us don't even know who our real friends are , and some of us don't even know who we are talking to most of the time either ...
" I hate touchy people .
people who want to appear as do
gooders and then carry on like
crazy hurt souls when someone
says peep to them . As if someone
has deliberately set out to do them
harm. Thats what is happening here
too often , "
Saskia, Do you really and honestly believe that the person in question has seriously wanted to harm you, (not physically), You are stronger than most and maybe it is not only that person of which you speak, but many others here are like that, i dont think they want to harm anyone, maybe they can not express like others can and what they say gets lost in the translation.
You really shouldn't have but .....
Thank you ! Thank you! Thank you!
ps: I will let you have the attention you seek since you seem to be craving it so bad
Catch you later attention seeker
I have no idea who this lady is, but if my guess is right, she maybe simply jealous seeing the attention you got which she couldn't get for her here. Don't worry, she's easy calling people she dislikes with names, but there has been many people who called her names too out there even before she's around on Blogs.
Just ignore that kind of person
I also noticed a common willingness to accept the faults in others and themselves ( very mature and welcome ) but as I suspected the old hatreds and self promoting anamosity came also . Don't you find this interesting . If you use this as a study in human reactions it does become an interesting presentation .
I think a lot of ground has been covered tonight and of course not all was covered as one would hope or liked.
I am not going to blow wind up anyone here as some do, but i will say the door is opened and maybe before we jump to any conclusions, can i remind you of a saying or two.
"You can lead a horse to water, but you can not make them drink it".
also
"Once bitten twice shy".
Conflicting sayings, but i feel appropriate for here.
Whilst we would all like the anger and hatred to subdue, it will of course not happen overnight, but hope it does happen.
First of all thanks for your comments on my blog.
I don,t know that the person who hurt ed you. Because you are really a very nice, cute, and polite lady. You are really very much respectable for me.
But please be brave and don,t worry about such person, because you have lot of sincere friends around.
ghsaeed
She was also on that blog , so you were also calling her, my friend a sheep ? ? ? ?
Don't you get it how weird you sound right now?
By the way you only think you have a sense of humour ..... you are way too serious about yourself , it was laughable .
hell has no fury like a women scorned,
We are both old enough to know to back away, but are we wise enough to, or are we just gluttons for punishment.
Either way, we seem to have an affection for these ladies and yes i will continue to seek a peaceful outcome.
By the way, know anywhere i can get some ball protectors, i'm still bruised from the last kicking......
I asked you politely not to mention my friend Jana while she is away and not able to speak for herself