Never Give Up

My girl and I were talking as we always do, She is so smart and intuitive. , there is so much about her that I truly admire .

But as I said we were talking about blogs and how it seems some people have given up on finding someone special to share life with.

I know I had all but given up, I posted on my profile that I was just looking for friend but in the back of my mind I was hoping I would find a good friend that would turn out to be much more. I never dreamed that I would fall for a girl half way around the world, but I did and I am glad.

I mean at 53 I would have been glad for a friend but she turned out to be the sweetest person. My point is that, had I really given up and let bitterness, envy and jealousy toward people who did have someone special, it would have shown in the blogs and comments I posted and then hope truly would be lost.

So I say never give up, I believe in God and I believe God is love. So I would pray that if I was to be alone that God would help me accept it and that if he wanted something else for me that I would be grateful and not let down God or her.

I very wise man once told me that as far as relationships went, that I should make a list of all the qualities I would want in a person and then do my best to be that person I described in my list.

I think love finds those who are willing to love, once a person stops being willing and starts to turn bitter then its probably too late.

So never give up you just dont know what God has in store and someone is out there waiting for and wanting someone just like you.

Peace