do or dont

I heard from my mutual friend that my ex is going to tie the knot . It was awkward when i discovering his engagement . actualy i want to congratulate him in person but he's thousand miles away . And i cant text him coz i delete all his contact and he knew bout it . but i still have his brother's number confused do ya think i have to text him ??
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No, it would not be wise to.....the past is the past. If you are not in regular contact now....conversing
dont worry about it , just post a blog about him ......if you need too! teddybear
Yeah cal , somehow im afraid that he wont responce my msg even i just wanna keep in touch as friend moping thats why its such dilema

Hehehehe thx virgo hug
If he has not informed you then leave it... It wont be wise to restart contact at this time....unless you dont want to leave him for any reason....help
Bambina!

Don't do it. If you happen to see him in person with his wife then you may want to say something. And this is why.

Many years ago when I was a young man I met this girl and I liked her very much. I didn't have too much luck with her and I never saw her again. But being the stupid young man I was a year later, still thinking about her, I sent her a letter telling her how I still felt about her.

Well, she had since gotten married and when her husband saw my letter to her he beat her up badly. I didn't know she was married. I didn't know what her husband did to her. Not until years later when my cousin told me. I felt so terrible even though it had been years in the past.

You will not know how the ex's fiancee will take your congratulations. So don't take the chance that everything is still ok.
if shes cut him off now ED , I dont think it will be a problem
Hi Bambina, I agree with Ourcomforts and Ed. Leave the past in peace. For yours and his good. hug wave
Hi bambina, well, why don’t you text your mutual friend and ask, to send your best wishes to your ex, as you deleted all the contacts? Nothing wrong with that.
if the two of you parted in good terms good you can text him or his brother

if you two parted in bad terms you can still say good luck with your marriage

if you do not like him better leave it alone

but if you choose to text and he does not answer are u going to be unhappy

very akward if he does not answer

the choice is very much yours bambina
Hi everybody ... thx for ur advice , yeah i think better i dont text him .... i could pray for his happiness anyway angel

Btw sorry for ur ex ed sad flower
Leave him a EAT SOME CORN text, let him wonder for a bit of what it means , he will call you to ask!
The thing is do you still love him?
No jules , not at all ... wine
Hi pretty Bambina,

Ya know, some years ago, one of my ex-girlfriends invited me to her 4th wedding.. and so, what the heck, I went, but the place felt more like a Casino.. everyone was secretly placing bets with each other on how long the marriage would last. lol laugh

Okay, just kidding.
Anyways, my advice to you is I would leave the past in the past. Have a fun day. grin
Yeah i decide to do nothing as he didnt told me bout this hehehehe , and thanks again for the advice

Its late now so i will sleep gnite everybody ... happy blogging teddybear
Bambina, he is your ex for a reason. Now he is marrying the woman he loves. It wouldn't be the right thing to do. In your heart you know that or you wouldn't be asking us.
I think if you feel it is right to send him a message, so do that, and give him your best wishes with his new wife... write it so she can read it too. I can not see any harm in leaving a happy thoughtful message to an ex that is an ex... I still talk to my ex, and I also talk to his new lady friend, and they are both on my facebook...So do what you feel is the right thing to do for you.teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Hey Bambina, cut him off. Im doing that with my ex now, she was always my possesion, but she has a boyfriend now, and when she visited me the other day, I told her now, she must choose, either him or me, cant keep teasing me like this.
Forget about the past, do something constructive when your lonely,

Ok, yuove heard how bad I am going with all these girls, but thats only because I know none of them are the right one, so I dont fall inlove with the wrong girl.
Its not worth it.
NO!! You shouldn't do that. Though I'm sure kata selamat would not have any bad impact for his relationship.. Impact nya lebih ke kamu sendiri, ntar dipikire kowe nimbrung2 dan niat banget yen nganti SMS mas-e..

Ed, that's really sad what happened to your ex.. sad flower
hi Bambi,

No don't do that, leve the past behind, you already move on forget about him. hug wave
bam...if he really wanted to stay in contact he would have, if he really wanted you to know he would have, rarely men delete women's contact, you are like me delete so you cant contact them again in the heat of a i feel sorry for myself moment! i believe everything happens for a reason, but of someone really wants to be with you they will try everything possible to be with youhug
nope.no.jangan.emoh.... scold
no dont do it
thanks everybody that means a lot for me teddybear
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