SUCCESSFUL HOMEMAKER
Mina San Konbawa; genki desuka?Good Evening/Good Morning to all; I hope you are all have a very fine day/Sunday.
Just giving some tips for Successful Homemaker....
* HAVE A DINNER READY
Plan ahead, even then night
before, to have a delicious - on
time. This is the way of letting
him know that you have been
thinking of him and are
concerned about his needs.
most men ate hungry when they
come home and the prospects of
A good meal are apart of the
warm welcome needed.
* PREPARE YOURSELF
Take 15 minutes to rest so you
will be refreshed when he
arrives. Touch up your makeup,
Put a ribbon in your hair, and
Be fresh looking. He has just
been with a lot of work-weary
peolple. Be a little gay and a
little more interesting. His boring
Days need a lift .
* CLEAR AWAY THE CLUTTER
Make one last trip through the
main part of the house just
Before your husband arrives,
Gathering up school books,
Toys, papers, etc. Then run a
dust cloth over the tables. Your
husband will feel he has
reached a haven of rest and
order, and it will give you a lift
too.
* PREPARE THE CHILDREN
Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces ( if they are small ), comb their hair, and if necessary, change their cloths. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing a part.
* MINIMIZED ALL NOISE
At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer , dishwasher, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quite. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
* SOME DON'T S
Don't greet him with problems or complains. Don't complain if he is late for dinner. Count this as a minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.
* MAKE HIM COMFORTABLE
Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take of his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax-unwind.
* LISTEN TO HIM
You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
* MAKE THE EVENING HIS
Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead his world of strain and pleasure, his need to be home and relax.
* THE GOAL
Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Well, this is good tips not only for the wives; it is vice versa; this also applicable for those husband's who happened to be at home and his wife is a working mother nor a bread winner of the family.
HAVE A HOME SWEET HOME
to all!
Crystal for CS Blog
Comments (29)
Still existing Sir.... There's still a woman like what I've mentioned...
As long as the husband is truly a very responsible man, loving and with dignity.... Why not.
With You,
Crystal
ding dang dolong am speaking Japanese
Love love love Cryyyyyyyyyyyyyystala
Don't complain if he is late for dinner.
Men should trip to moon for find such a wives ha ha ha or maybe they can see this kind of women in their dreams
Japanlove
Oh how is cute Crystal
How are u people
It should be a give and take relationship and mutual understanding Sir.
Being selfish and self- centered will be DENIED!
Yours,
Crystal
Love love love
I really had a great weekend with my friends. Then, of course my attention to all of you here; most specially to you my Dear Friend.
You know Dear... That is the matter of principle already and the way the individual women wants to handled their family. It is not compulsory anyway. It is how you motivate yourself of accepting your title being a mother and a wife....still, your choice is all up to you my dear.
Have a great Sunday.
With Love,
Crystal
Guys, your problem is not that where to find such a woman, there are many, I know that.
She needs help to stay that way.
So this is your concern about yourself.
Jenny
Thank you for giving your time to visit my blog again. It was truly appreciated.
That is why my dear... LOVE & RESPECT is very important in any relationship. It is a matter of how you carry nor handle your partner. Communication is very much important too. Because communication will lead you both to love and unity. But in all communication, it is important the healthy self-image and nourishable talks. A heart to heart talk....
With Love,
Crystal
You're 8.36 minutes late! Why?
Nope, such women as you describe don't exist!
Please to meet you; and welcome to my blog. Yes, thank you; you are perfectly right.
Even on the road, there is two ways... And sometimes it expands depending to a traffic conditions of vehicles; do that everybody could drive conveniently...
Regards,
Crystal
You know the kind of woman that pleases me? The woman that loves me as much as I love her and means it, shows it and walks with me in life!
I live simple and that's all I need.
Hello dear, thanks for being around. You are such a young man. Doittashimasite. Mata kette kudasai.
Yours,
Crystal
Do you really think something written in the 50s still applies today?
It's your first time to visit my blog;
Welcome my dear... You are such a pretty lady. I can sense that you had a good motivation for yourself; and that will be nice. Please do applied what you say in your personal life.
Yours,
Crystal
Since you have a full loving heart; out Friendship will sink deeply and strong. I will be your friend always...
With Love,
Crystal
My Dear St. Elmo,
You made me laughed with that picture! She is good to be in slaughter house... To kill animals for food. She is not dangerous to become a wife... Not qualified for her the title of a wife.
Of course dear, it's still existing!
Used your senses in finding so....
You are very much welcome dear.
And thank you too. Until then.
Hello! Nice to see you again.
Your concept about your partner is very gentle and sweet. But sometimes, living life is not a bed of roses as I been saying...
Don't stop in just enough, both of you should cultivate the relationship to grow more and get a good harvest someday.
Yours,
Crystal
Yes, I believe so; because it has been written in same perfect words up to this millennium years; as I been search and share it here again for those who can't read it yet like me. It is on the magazine already. Is there any problem with that?
Simply,
Crystal
Have a nice sleep...
Eli u looks very cute now
Love love Elilalo
Love love Elilala
Have a bless week Eli, a week ful of goodluck and happiness and goodnews and joy and love and comfort and safe and angels
Why get defensive?
I dont think that something that was considered advice to housewives over 60 years ago has any relevance in todays world.
However it just reminded me how set my Mum is in her house keeping, her routine has never varied ever since I remember her doing these chores...
Although now there's no kids, but much of what written in the blog and the J-walk blog in terms of personal physical hygiene/make-up and kitchen clean up - it's all spic, span & tidy...