Leaving as One, Returning As Two

Hi all my friends and fellow bloggers.

Well it is an exciting time. I leave my home as a single man to travel to China.

Then two weeks later, I return to Australia with my fiancee.

It was a long time coming and waiting. Now it is reality. Wow.

I don't know about you all, but for me it is exciting, and also nervous.

I had to adjust my life from being married, to being single again. This was not an easy transition for me. Now that I have been comfortable being single, I am nervous about once again having to transition from living my own life, to living as part of a greater life with my fiancee.

Wow. There are hopes and dreams that we each have. Now comes the part of truely melding two into one again. What an adventure and what an unknown future there is.

It is exciting, and nervous times ahead.

Apart from the wonderful relationship, now comes the reality of moving possessions from one country to another. Now comes the melding of cultures, the melding of personalities, the melding of lives into one cohesive living relationship that is neither me or my fiancee, but a bit of both.

Does anyone know how to warm up a pair of cold feet? Ha ha ha.

Seriously, this is a time of excited expectation, and also nervous unknowing of what our futures together will really be like.

It is one thing to date, but to spend the rest on one's life with another can feel daunting at first.

Oh well, the journey of a thousand miles begins with one small step. I'm walking now, and I wouldn't want it any other way.

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thumbs up Congrats thumbs up handshake
Good luck Halv0,
And A pleasant and loving future to you both, thumbs up
Dear Halv0,
Congratulation for both of you!!bouquet
I believe with your wisely vision on this life and experienced you have gained before, you will have a Happy Family.
Wish all the best for you. teddybear wine

PS : i know how to warm up a pair of cold feet ; just put them on boiled water rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I salute with your courage to take small step for your long journey to grab your happiness. Australia - China, yes it is not near but thousand mills like you said. I really salute since not everybody have that courage... thumbs up teddybear CONGRATS HALV0... hug
@HalvO..... Congratulations to you!!thumbs up thumbs up
Best of luck to both of you Halv0. handshake

I was apprehensive of this myself in the past, but I found if you're with the right person, it's not a struggle but comes naturally because you want to spend time with each other.

Enjoy each others company! wine
congratulations! I also like reading some of your posts. I got some positive points there.
Congrats!!: all the best, Happy New year !cheers:
very happy for you and your fiancee Halv.. good luck to you both.
This is what happen to me every time i change partner until i miss the single life and again and again......doh
Halv0....I admire your commitment and sincerely wish you joy and happiness for your future together. We can find excuses for it not to work, or we can find reasons to make magic together.
Congratulations! Stay happy, fulfilled and open mindedpeace
Halv0, I am happy for you both and wish you a lifetime of love. wave thumbs up
AJ, you give excellent advice and I agree!
Congrats Halv0 and to you fiancee. And goodluck for the journey to be together. I wish you happy and meaningful times ahead with the love of your life. teddybear
I am a bit worried about the feelings of your lady if she sees the line where you write line. "does anyone know how to warm up a pair of cold feet " ha ha ha , I do hope your lady does not see that you wrote that.
I do hope it works out for you both.
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Halv0

Marcoola, Queensland, Australia

I'm an easy going bloke. I have a cheeky sense of humour at times, and love living near the beach. I love chatting and am a real talker when I get started. I also enjoy the company of others and sharing time with friends, but I also enjoy time out. I [read more]

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