Leaving as One, Returning As Two
Hi all my friends and fellow bloggers.Well it is an exciting time. I leave my home as a single man to travel to China.
Then two weeks later, I return to Australia with my fiancee.
It was a long time coming and waiting. Now it is reality. Wow.
I don't know about you all, but for me it is exciting, and also nervous.
I had to adjust my life from being married, to being single again. This was not an easy transition for me. Now that I have been comfortable being single, I am nervous about once again having to transition from living my own life, to living as part of a greater life with my fiancee.
Wow. There are hopes and dreams that we each have. Now comes the part of truely melding two into one again. What an adventure and what an unknown future there is.
It is exciting, and nervous times ahead.
Apart from the wonderful relationship, now comes the reality of moving possessions from one country to another. Now comes the melding of cultures, the melding of personalities, the melding of lives into one cohesive living relationship that is neither me or my fiancee, but a bit of both.
Does anyone know how to warm up a pair of cold feet? Ha ha ha.
Seriously, this is a time of excited expectation, and also nervous unknowing of what our futures together will really be like.
It is one thing to date, but to spend the rest on one's life with another can feel daunting at first.
Oh well, the journey of a thousand miles begins with one small step. I'm walking now, and I wouldn't want it any other way.
Comments (16)
And A pleasant and loving future to you both,
Congratulation for both of you!!
I believe with your wisely vision on this life and experienced you have gained before, you will have a Happy Family.
Wish all the best for you.
PS : i know how to warm up a pair of cold feet ; just put them on boiled water
I was apprehensive of this myself in the past, but I found if you're with the right person, it's not a struggle but comes naturally because you want to spend time with each other.
Enjoy each others company!
I do hope it works out for you both.