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Leave it to you with the comments...lol...
Pretty
I would run in the other direction...men are not all created the same...
Whats next, women having the right to vote ,drive cars...
Shudder to think!!
Man has to work and bring money to home. Period.
Truly I think behind every strong man (head of the household) there is a smart woman that runs the game, but lets her hubby think that he is the King
the most logical way to run the household is, by not having the man or the woman as head, but to assign responsibilities to the most eligible person. the critical thinker will deal with jobs that involves thinking - managing the home budget and investing. the follower will do the routine jobs that do not involve thinking - grocery shopping and paying bills. a person ( man or woman ) can be partly leader ( thinker ) and partly follower. in other words, in real life situations both husband and wife will do some thinking jobs and some routine jobs. it is more like running the government.
but if with partner I would expect equal treatment, compromises and equality
the second paragraph of my comment explained my standpoint. it is indeed equal as i have written no man nor woman as the head but an intelligent division of labor.
but there was an logical anamoly. the house work done by women was indeed included in the discussion ( i always enjoyed thought-provoking debates back then in my college days ), and when i argued that if the unemployed man in question is ready to do the same ( cooking, cleaning, washing, childrearing, whatever done by the unemployed woman ), will the employed woman marry that unemployed man? and still there was a big nooooo!!!!!
I have heard women say this because they fear they will have to support the man, especially if he has a history of on and off working. When women are young, they also need a man to be able to help support them when children come along - they want a help-meet, not another child, as some phrased it.